I created a profile and was inundated with likes, winks, requests for photos and 'collect messages', 19 in total in 5 days. I then paid $200 for 500 credits, and have had 3 contacts in 4 weeks, all a... See more
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Married Dating, Affairs, Married Women, Extramarital Affair. Ashley Madison is the online personals & dating destination for casual encounters, married dating, secret romance and adult fantasy.
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I wrote this to their customer service…
I wrote this to their customer service and received no response:
I’ve been on here a number of times over the past 5 years or so and have to say probably my last time. My issues are as follows:
1) Way too many inactive profiles on here some from when I first joined.
2) So many fake/scammer profiles even Stevie Wonder could pick them out.
3) Constantly getting messages from AM checkout hot members in your area or a specific profile concerning her hidden desires. A lot of them are not even close to what I’m looking for and many contain what I’m talking about in 1 and 2 above.
I was recently on another site that had a feature showing last long in on the site which is a great feature in my opinion. What does the green dot on a profile supposed to mean because they certainly aren’t active.
As I said I’ve been on a number of times when I left I gave the same reasons as above but this time once again same old same old.
Pretty frustrating when you send certified messages and they aren’t even opened which leads me to believe once again the files aren’t active. If someone opens and doesn’t contact me I have no issue with that but when your company knows they’re not actually active and I waste credits it doesn’t say much about your concern for customer service.
AM sucks very unreliable, they constantly give you unending charges
They need to be upfront & honest instead untrustworthy & lie about charging for every single message, it's impossible to communicate there!!👎👎👎👎👎🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
They get an F for a grade!!
Ashley Madison is a sham
Ashley Madison is a sham. 95% of female profiles are fake and/or scammers. What a terrible experience. WASTE OF TIME AND MONEY. Not an honorable organization. SHAMEFUL.
Full of blackmailers
Firstly the fact that I got messages but once I subscribed I realised these were all just prompts by the site to get me to subscribe.
It is very expensive.
Mostly fake profiles.
I chatted to one supposed woman and then she wanted to share contact details. Stupidly I trusted her. Turns out she was actually a blackmailer and threatened to contact my wife and employer. I promptly cut all communication and cancelled my membership. What a scamming site. What a fool I am.
Ashley Madison
It's a shitty site. Ashley Madison that is.
It's beginning to ask for government ID..
They wouldn't let real people join, unless you verify with government ID. Who'd fall for that type of thing in 2025. They literally had data leak few yrs ago.
I'm a real woman and I will not be submitting my government ID to that type of site. It's an affair site not a typical dating site.
Almost all fake profiles and bots
Almost all fake profiles and bots. Company just tries to get you to use credits sending messages. Scammers immediately ask you to go to Whatsapp or telegram
Most of the profiles are fake
Most of the profiles are fake. The credits get used every time you do anything.
They make no effort to improve, and are fine with fake AI bots.
They make no effort to improve anymore than your cell carrier wants to stop spam calls. To many fake reviews. It is 99.8 % fake profiles trying to get you to spend credits. Since the onset of AI it is 10 X worse. Even to "Certified" people are fake. Use your common sense and ask a question AI would not know and BAM! A woman told me she was just up the road I lied and said I am in LA and she came back "So am I" a certified account.
I signed up for AshleyMadison against my better judgment. Looking back now, I realize that I smelled a rat right away
Moreover I knew what a legit dating site should be like (I have used NautyAF.com
and several other good services). But anyway I just wanted to use up my credits so I engaged in conversations with what I thought were real women on AshleyMadison. The majority of them turned out to be scammers. They tried to rip me off blatantly and openly. They were pretty straightforward. Others turned out to be AI bots. I must admit they were quite sophisticated (cutting-edge technologies haha) and able to hold a meaningful conversation for 5-10 minutes but it was still pretty easy to identify them. So I left AshleyMadison as soon as I used up my credits.
Complete grifters
Complete grifters!
Shocked anyone pays for it. Men want to believe. I created a profile asking women to meet and let me spread DO DO all over them. I have received close to 500 mails or winks. Recently tons of profiles became "VERIFIED". I assume if it's real you could verify then upload pics of anyone.I have seen several actresses, online celbs an only a few porn stars. I reported Tila Tequila, Angie Verona, and Kasumi and those profiles stayed up for MONTHS. Also, a woman's picture that is taken from a school districts page. It's wild, that one has been up for over a year. I did pay the $14 dollars once---they appeared to be "TALKERS' always avoiding wanting to meet and no outside contact info.
Buyer beware!!!…
Given that you are charged for every message you send and receive, Ashley Madison has every incentive to employ AI bots to drag out small talk, all the while sucking up those credits you have to pay for. It’s quite unbelievable. I feel like a sucker for getting roped in. I very highly don’t recommend this site.
It’s hilarious reading reviews of these…
It’s hilarious reading reviews of these guys getting ripped off. All of you were either looking to cheat or possibly destroy a marriage of someone else. You’re all freaking garbage.
Kept credit card details without …
Kept credit card details without authorisation and took money without chance to consider an offer or confirm payment method. Despite not asking it did not even apply the bonus credits.
As a disabled gentleman I felt unsafe on this site and would not recommend anyone go on to it. Most members appear non legit and the only contact I had were from fake profiles using US numbers yet claiming to live locally in the UK.
This company is only good at conning people out of their money. It’s scammers’ paradise
All the women I contacted asked me for money and gift cards. I’m having better experience on AFFinders.com
- it’s the only platform that gives real hook ups, I mean real offline thing. AshleyMadison is not worth the money. They may have a dozen or so of real women but it’s really difficult to find them cause you have to sift through hundreds of scammers. Usually it’s easy to say that she is a scammer, but I believe some people may be more naïve and they can easily fall victim to this fraud. So just avoid AM!
I paid for members to send free…
I paid for members to send free messages and then I could respond for free.Any member that was verified that sent me a message I could not respond to without paying
The app is trash pay me just to see a…
The app is trash pay me just to see a picture pay me to talk pay me for anything you do. I got scam please don’t waste your time
CESSPOOL OF FAKES, BOTS AND SCAMS
I joined and paid to use Ashley Madison. In my experience it was much worse than disappointing and it is absolutely deceptive. It is FULL of bots, fake accounts, and scammers. I must have reached out to over 100 "females" and ZERO, NONE of them ended up to be a real person. I believe AM actively participates in the scams to make money "per click" on new rotations of fake profiles that never go anywhere. I wish I could kick Ashley Madison in the nuts.
AshleyMadison is a giant scam machine based on the man's ego
It's very easy to lay your eyes on these girls- they are sexy and friendly. But the thing is they just want to entice you into messaging. If you have ever used JLFlirt.com
or a another service like this you know that you pay a fixed fee only one time and you can read and write as many messages as you want and chances are high that you will meet real girls there - online and then offline. Don't expect anything like that from AshleyMadison - it is entirely based on a scam model which involves plenty of fake accounts and staff members who pretend to be sincerely interested in you but in fact they are getting paid to seduce you and to get you to exchange messages. There are also some cam girls and half-scam escorts, who rarely show up after you pay a deposit. Beautiful community lol Hilarious, isn't it?
Ok so I was skeptical on the reviews I…
Ok so I was skeptical on the reviews I saw but should have listened. This site is a waste of money, you will get lots of responses with lot of interest once you reply it turns into a text conversation that eats your credits fast with small talk. Lots of bots on there generating conversation and pics! If you tell them something specific they will reask the same thing in the next text. If you pick a person from a area you will get 3x the responses from that area. Also if you watch the same messages or pics will come from a different person or location. Oneother thing they will come out way hot and heavy if you respond they will answer back with a huge text but you only get 200 text spaces including between words to respond. Once you respond they dig for simple conversation and say oh we need to speend time getting to know each other when their initial text to you is very graphic and more direct than anything you send back. Big waste of time here
This website is literally a breeding…
This website is literally a breeding ground for fraud and extortion - I mean rife is an understatement, it’s endemic and you can expect 3/5 interactions to be dodgy.
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