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910 E. Hamilton Ave. 6th floor, 95008, Campbell, United States
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- www.adultfriendfinder.com
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Not worth a fraction of a Star!
Not worth a fraction of a Star!! I am from the UK (Glasgow) and drunkenly bought a Gold membership probably knowing full well that I was being scammed and how right I was. AFF cannot even get the Geography right in their fake profiles which I am pretty certain they generate most of these profiles themselves or most likely pay someone else to wield the shi**y stick. I have seen hundreds of profiles with members from Glasgow being from Glasgow, Glasgow Inverness, Glasgow Dumfriesshire, Glasgow Aberdeenshire and the list goes on and on, its almost laughable just how crap the fake profiles are. I opted for the three month Gold package and it wasn't cheap and have I even received one like or one message? Not one! Save your money folks as this is an out an out scam and unfortunately, this weekend there will be more drunken desperados like yours truly chucking money into the wind to join this nonsense website.
Awful website with awful support.
I’ve never used this website, however it was brought to my attention some months ago that images of me are being used there without my consent. Someone is using my photos to catfish users there; I have contacted the support team and they have done nothing about it. They remove every account that I create to try and find the culprit also as I figured if they won’t find them I will try myself. A truly awful support system, and when you do contact them to complain about accounts using your images you are simply told it will be investigated but you will not be updated due to “privacy considerations”. Surely the fact that my privacy has been breached should be the main concern, no?
Not even one star
Not even one star. Save your money what a waste of time this site is. Hardly any genuine current locals. Lots of fake profiles and bots. I’m in the Uk but get fake profiles bombarding me from USA.. told them I was not happy with purchase. asked for my money back and a refund but was refused. You can tell it’s bad as there are no comments back from AFF to these comments. They don’t care. Avoid!
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Criminal punks
Only way to communicate with other adults was to by a $100 3 month membership. So I did. After 1week, I was no longer able to login. So I contacted them and they said I broke their terms of service and my account had been deleted.
They wouldn’t tell me what terms I had broken and to find out that, they gave me a law firm website.
They are criminal punks.
Nothing more than a worthless scam site
AFF gets great reviews by professional reviewers who have been paid off but nearly everyone else except perhaps gay men will tell you "Adult Friend Finder" is simply a scam web-site. Virtually every time someone replied to me or messaged me that looked attractive their account was removed before I could write them back. The most unreasonable aspect of the web-site is that one can not message anyone unless they too have a paid membership or you pay for them to be able to write you back. The only real women that wrote me were prostitutes so they should call it adult prostitute Finder. The site is nothing more than a scam run by scammers.
Should be renamed "Catfish Central"
Should be renamed "Catfish Central"
Its dire, 99% fake profiles.
Don't waste your money
I have hooked up three times in the…
I have hooked up three times in the last month and have more potential ones in the wings. Overall I like it. Have to have patience but you will prevail here
I would give aff one star purely for…
I would give aff one star purely for surviving so long. I had three separate encounters with them and with a three year gap between first and last I was able to draw conclusions. Most profiles are dormant, some for years. You must remember to look for the last visited date. Using it from an Irish perspective it quickly dawns that this is geared up for US membership first and foremost. 99% of responders were in the US. Either they assume everyone is living there or they bother to check. Irish profiles were 80% the same ones that were there years before. The most interesting of all is two part. 1. Most other sites are the same with coin purchase ones the very worst. 2. One has to question who does the online reviews for these sites. The most recommended are the worst offenders. One then largely assumes the poacher is managing the gamekeeper’s duties. Out of the hundreds of sites it is no surprise someone reported successful dates. But with that in mind it has to be acknowledged that these are money-making devices who are designed to keep us searching.
This is a scam sight from top to…
This is a scam sight from top to bottom. You know straight away when within a minute of signing up you get 4 chat requests that it's just a fake site. Don't bother.
Yet another money grabbing site
Yet another money grabbing site
It's not free in any way, avoid at all costs
Real female user: Sexy_4_Men
First of all, I am a woman, user of Adult Friend Finder with "Sexy_4_Men" handle (you can check me out, I'm still in there).
I've been using this website since 2006,so I've seen a lot in here.
So, I'm gonna try to be short but I know I'll probably won't be.
At the beginning of my use, in 2006, I did as all you men do and paid for the subscription. It was my very first time on such a website and I really wanted to have sex (for personal reasons I didn't know many people where I was living and hadn't much time or options to just go out and meet new people, so that was my best option). I also got disappointed as no one on that website, by then, lived in my city (quite normal, though, as it was a small city, so I'm guessing most people were afraid of being recognized).
Small remark, I'm single and I've always been single when on the website, so I never had anything to hide.
Well, great thing AFF has, is the chat rooms where I did get to know interesting men for which, after chatting, emailing and get interested in them I did travel to meet them to have sexual encounters. Pathetic on my side that I did all the payments of trips, hotels, my food... Just to get laid with the ones I selected (and I admit I am very picky).
I've met a few great men and I still have the phone number of the first (married) men I've met in there, in 2006.
Unfortunately, I have to say that the best men I encounter there, were married but, hey, they've never lied to me so I just had to accept or leave. I did both, in a way... I did accept with those I wanted and broke off the relationship when I felt that they weren't giving me enough but I had clear that I was the "extra" there.
So, AFF did great for me for several years. I obviously weren't on the website the all time, and given that I've saw that most people who disappeared from there, lately returned with another nickname, I've always hidden my profile to return with my same handle whenever I wanted to and that's how after almost 20years, I still keep my nickname.
Now... I've stopped using AFF for the largest period, from early 2017 to the very end of 2019 and when I came back.... Damn that website had changed... But not the website itself, but the people (men) in there. You shouldn't blame the website for the men that you are. Men, in there, now, think women are mere objects who can be used and trashed. They're not interested in knowing the person (like I said, I've been in sexual relationships and that only happens when you do meet the person and TRUST the person you're with).
These days, you men are in a culture of "open your legs for me, just cause I say so" and you expect women to comply, when there's hundred of those type of men who ANY woman lack interest in! Those type of men are just pathetic!
A woman wants to be wowed. Sex for a woman isn't a simply mechanical interacting; is a mutual human interaction, that involves BRAINS, time and effort on both sides.
You men who think you can go on those websites and just expect women (who are harassed online as much as in real life) to be opening their legs for you just because you say so, without even showing them why you are different and better and special and that you know how to treat her right, to me as a woman, are simply pathetic!
Don't blame a website for your lack of knowledge on how women are, act and EXPECT YOU TO BEHAVE and TREAT HER!
So, you guys thought that just because you pay on an online website, you'd get free sex with hot women (surely hotter than you, morons who go on those websites just showing your d¡cks as if that was what a woman wants to see - god, you guys really are pathetic) showing your lack of social skills, without having any social interaction with the woman? You are so lame! LMAO...
Don't blame a website for proving you that you are dumbasses!
Woman don't go for fast sex ever! You'll be luckier on a bar than to try that on a website, as it's obvious, for someone with a brain, at least!
Lately, lots of fake profiles are around, indeed. Other things are hoos pretending they'll offer you, dumbasses, free sex and when they come with a "pay me" convo, you get surprised... Gezzz... Grow the fck up!
Now what I dislike the most there is that lots of guys create fake women's profiles just to have cybersex on the chat rooms with guys (morons) who think that a woman would ever want to have public cyber sex with random guys.
So, that website has become trashy, disgusting and with an environment that no decent woman who wants to feel safe and respected would want to be in, let alone meet guys who just hit on everyone and everything with a hole.
Nonetheless, I do believe that's not the website to blame but the society we have now, where people want sex like if this was an Amazon request (I ask today to be delivered in a few hours or tomorrow the latest) so you guys GROW UP, GROW SOME SOCIAL SKILLS AND RESPECT WOMEN and stop winning, complaining about AFF.
I’d been on this site a number of times…
I’d been on this site a number of times previously but had not included a main profile photo. The result was a poor experience, although I did get laid once!
This time I threw caution to the wind and included a main profile photo. Inundated with hits, mainly from the other side of the world. The women really are looking for Mr Right. I had about 20 genuine chats, each one lasting for 2-3 days. All bar 2 were scams. On the whole, a frustrating experience but still better than most of the others.
i became paid member and the only…
i became paid member and the only responses was getting spams, bots ,fake profiles and uncaring response from admin. They took my membership money but never gave me anything , Worst ever experience, don't do it.
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Glitchy
Glitchy, unresponsive,
I put in under 20miles, yet get hits from far away. Useless to me.
Full of Middle Eastern camel jobs just trying to get your money
Dating site Isis consisted of scammers mostly camel jocks. They really know how to use a computer and they know how to really talk some bull crap. I got scammed up $125 from this girl I thought like me there was just a scam. If I was looking at any dating site I don't believe I'm ever going to get on one this is my first one and last one. I wouldn't advise you spend your money on this piece of s***. Oklahoma
This site represents everything whats the worst
This site does everything it can to be the worst for the Users. Their "business model" which i would rather call scam model may be bringing money, but even if the user spend all his spendings on this site, it will remain useless due to absurd politics. Essence of the cancer on NSFW dating sites.
I decided to pace this review after…using the site for 3 months
I'm not here to mention that the users are all fake or whatsoever, but the main issue I'd like to point out is that the webmaster of the website do absolutely nothing about fake and reported profiles. YOU CAN ALSO MAKE SURE THAT ANY PROFILE LABELLED AS "CONFIRMED" ARE EVEN ALSO FAKE, NOT REAL A BIT.
I have flagged several profiles a s fake with concrete and obvious evidences which are mostly profiles using a celebrity or a pornstar picture as their profile avatar. I have provided super clear evidences to show that the profiles are fake. WITH EVIDENCES. Yet they absolutely did nothing about it.
My final view is that this website is phishing and collecting peoples money in a legit looking way.
I'm now %100 sure that this website is a SCAM
This is a scam website
This is a scam website! I had Gold for 3 months, managet d disable autorenewal of it. Only for the Standart Contacts fee it was not possible to disable, whichever way i tried!
Now they charged my Card 40$ for this sh¡††y Standard Contacts and i'm still not able to disable the ƒu©king autorenewal! I need to stop them via my credit card company! A big middlefinger to AFF!
Problem with photos has suddenly been resolved
I was unable for over a year to post a photo so that people will look at my profile. Every photo I posted was rejected. The reasons given included:
- Photo contains an animal
- Photo contains a picture of a celebrity
- Photo contains more than one person
- Photo has been altered
None of these reasons were true. I was unable to ever contact a human.
The day after I posted a 1-star review here saying this, my photos were approved! And a real human answered my email. So I'm upgrading my review from 1 to 3 stars. Still only 3 stars, 'coz the site is a little buggy, a lot sleazy (so many people use photos of their genitals as their profile!), and sad (mostly old men and fat women looking for sex).
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