I had a decent interaction wirh my pears and it was just so welcoming However the time span on the free credits should be extended.
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My interactions have been interesting and respectful.. Coming from South Africa the cos of credits is difficult.. especially because finds r low..
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Easy to use and navigate
Good interaction with people on the side.
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Violetdates is an online dating platform designed for those who value deep connection and heartfelt conversations. Whether you're looking to add warmth to your day or enjoy light romantic communication, Violetdates creates the space to let those moments bloom naturally. Our platform focuses on helping people connect at their own pace, without pressure or expectations. Here, you can share thoughts, express yourself freely, and enjoy the experience of talking to like-minded individuals. It’s about enjoying meaningful exchanges and seeing where the moment leads — one message at a time. Every conversation is a chance to discover someone who brings positivity into your routine. With Violetdates, romance unfolds gently, bringing joy, comfort, and a touch of excitement into your life. Join Violetdates to enjoy thoughtful communication in a safe and welcoming environment. Whether you're here to connect with someone new or simply to explore romantic conversations, this is your place to feel inspired and enjoy every moment as it comes. Let romance bloom.
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- support@violetdates.help
- violetdates.com
3.6
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140 reviews
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Another site out to steal mens money
Another site out to steal mens money. Its Way to expensive and girls clear Only there to make men buy credits.
Stay away cause it Will Only take your money and you wont meet anybody.
Proof of scam; No matter what you do or say, the girls allways think you should stay om site, buy more dredits canuse you need to know each other. Its only to make men buy credits.
When you try to meet, thay allways have an excuse why you have to stay on site and keep buying credits to chat for ever.
They have no intension to meet anybody and just want men to buy credits all the time.
Besides this the site is way to expensive and they want money for features, that wont cost the site anything.
Its nothing but a scam.
The site dont like me telling the truth, so they want my review removed, but this site is just no good and only out to take your money.
If it really was about helping people, it would cost less and it would be possible to talk to girls outside the site and not after you have spend 1000s of credits.
Stay away cause they only want to take your money.
Haha they write i can contact support, but i already did and it was useless of cause. But i got some free credits, but what does that help when you get tcheated by the site?
And its always the same. You write a woman and she answer with sound or video, so men has to pay to see or hear what she says.
9 April 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Allan,
Your trust is important to us. Our platform is equipped with advanced security algorithms and is supported by a professional moderation team to help prevent fraud. Also our platform brings together people with diverse communication styles, everyone engages in their own way and at their own pace. Many of our users are verified according to our Terms of Services, and if anything seems suspicious, the platform provides tools to block and report users directly. If you have any specific concerns, feel free to reach out at support@violetdates.help.
Best regards,
Melissa from Meetwithmature
Just on my first attempt I am enjoying…
Just on my first attempt I am enjoying my chat with someone
8 April 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi there,
Glad the first experience has been enjoyable, that's a great start. Hope the conversation keeps flowing!
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Reply from VioletDates
Hi there,
We're glad you took the time to share your thoughts with us.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
I,admit that the person with whom I had…
I,admit that the person with whom I had my first conversation, was very cool
4 January 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Huguette,
We appreciate you sharing your experience with us.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Élodie,
Your thoughts matter to us, and we appreciate you sharing them.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Michael,
We really appreciate your thoughts and feedback.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Easy to inscribe and Quick result
25 March 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Rabâche,
Glad getting started was smooth, hope the experience keeps going just as well!
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
First and foremost the credit I was…
First and foremost the credit I was given and the people I met on this platform so far so good
24 March 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Gina,
Your experience matters to us, and we appreciate you putting it into words.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Very efficient very proactive
22 March 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Nadia,
Thanks for sharing, glad the experience has stood out!
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Untrustwirthy
Expensive. I am still waiting to remove my account despite trying to do this for a month and endless emails. Whilst I can’t prove anything I feel the language used by users felt AI generated. When I suggested this to one user they got very angry. I’m out and would not recommend them. Still waiting for my account to be deleted😩
22 March 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi there,
We can confirm that your account has been successfully terminated as per your request. We're sorry to hear the process took longer than expected, this is not the experience we aim to provide. If you have any remaining concerns, please don't hesitate to reach out at support@violetdates.help.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Grace,
Good to have you here, hope it keeps going in the right direction!
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
I feel like the person on the otherside…
I feel like the person on the otherside is not real. Like I am chatting with AI
20 March 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Anu,
Our platform has security measures in place to maintain a trustworthy environment, and many profiles are verified in line with our Terms of Services. If any specific conversation raised concerns, we encourage you to report it directly through the platform or reach out to us at support@violetdates.help, all reports are thoroughly reviewed.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
I thought its free
18 March 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Karen,
While registration and browsing are free, credits apply to certain interactive features. If you'd like a clearer breakdown of how it works, our team is happy to help at support@violetdates.help.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Andreen,
Thanks for taking the time to give us feedback on our platform.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Reply from VioletDates
Hi there,
We really appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Most men are gentlemen
15 March 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi there,
Really nice to hear, respectful interactions are what the platform is here for!
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
I met someone really awsome.
12 March 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Annie,
That's wonderful, wishing you all the best with it!
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Mbali,
Good to hear, hope the conversations keep going strong!
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
In few minutes i met interesting people
In few minutes i met interesting people
10 March 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Neo,
Nice to hear that, thanks for sharing.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
For the moment i explore
For the moment i explore, but this site is funny
10 March 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Murielle,
Hope the exploring brings plenty more good surprises along the way.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
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