Steps to Happyness Reviews 66

Hi! I’m Reggi from US. I joined the GOH program during the summer of 2020. I had recently broken off my one year relationship with a very selfish angry emotionally and psychologically abusive man. I was struggling with letting go and moving on. I started out stalking Cherlyn’s FB lives in the mornings around 8am. She would always call me out when she saw me there bc I hadn’t joined yet and I was so hesitant about setting up the first initial call just for the consultation. I love her message and her promise of “not giving a f” about the ex.

My biggest challenge prior to joining was dealing with the guilt...guilt that I wasn’t a good girlfriend, that I hadn’t tried absolutely everything, that I abandoned him, that I couldn’t just make things work, why did I have to have needs and dreams and desires and hobbies, why weren’t the times he wasn’t complaining and arguing enough to keep me happy?

There’s two things that come immediately to mind when I think of how this challenge made me feel;
Unsafe- There was no safe space to be myself and express my needs or likes and dislikes without being completely ignored Or invalidated. It wasn’t safe to care about myself and I didn’t have permission to believe that I deserved more than to be treated well some of the time and as long as things were going his way.
Imprisoned- It felt as if he held the key to my emotional freedom and joy. I was not allowed to express my sadness or needs to him without there being a price to pay. And usually that price came in the form of guilt tripping and silent treatments. It was like having my entire voice box and soul locked away and hidden.

I really wanted to get over him. But honestly I thought it would take a year, and I was okay with that thought. I really believed that would be the best to expect. But Cherlyn kept saying over and over that the women in her GOH program were getting over their ex’s so much faster. I didn’t fully believe that but I so desperately wanted to stop crying over him, stop second guessing my decision to end the relationship, and wanting to relapse back to him. I wanted to stop seeing him as the savior from the pain and loneliness I was drowning in everyday.

OMG so much has changed!
First of all I GOT OVER HIM lol!!! I still think of him but it’s not the same. The “Love Addiction” pulls are gone. He’s no longer on a pedestal as my king. He’s simply not important anymore.
Secondly, I speak up for myself now. I had an uncomfortable situation to come up at work with my boss that I had to disagree with him. I stated why I disagreed, explained a pattern of disrespect at work, and I told him no to a request that he made. I held my position and maintained complete control of my emotions. There was a lot of dead air on that phone call LOL and I didn’t let it cause me to wobble!
And thirdly, I take time for myself care. I don’t feel obligated to take a phone call when I need a hot bath. I don’t feel pressured to do things or respond to an invitation just because someone invited me to something. And I’m living my life with purpose, curiosity, and fun.

The thing that I can say to anyone who is thinking of joining the GOH program is do it. Do it. Do it. It’s the best decision towards your mental health and emotional well-being you could ever make. Think of the health costs - loss of sleep, loss of energy, your happiness, even loss of your hair, loss of mental clarity, low self-worth feelings – just these things outweigh the cost of the price of the GOH program. Cherlyn’s program gives you back your mental clarity, your focus, your love of life, your joy, your happiness, your youthfulness, your sense of peace and your self again.
And the fact that Cherlyn allows for the monthly payment plan option… That is a no brainer! It makes it so much easier and affordable. And all of the extra support from the ladies in the group, and no judgement....there’s no price on that. You’ll look back and be so thankful you did it.

In July of 2020, I finally seperated from my now 2nd ex-husband of 3yrs and was damaged more than the 1st marriage of 16yrs.

I am a mother of two primary girls, from my 1st ex-husband, and am CEO of Divine Hire, a direct hire firm here in California.

Unfortunately I got married quick with my recent ex-husband which followed my 1st divorce and knew I needed to heal and rediscover my worth.

I was angry, sad, resentful, and so very broken. I prayed for help and then began to seek out help. I had no luck with my insurance after a year+ finding the right therapist or availability and after this prayer I began to look at FB and online searching divorce support type groups and divinely came across a Steps to Happyness video and FB group for Getting Over Him which was so unique! Now only is it a place for empowerment, but life coach Cherlyn specializes in healing strong independent woman who get taken advantage of by no good men.

Finding Cherlyn and her GOH program was THE answer to my prayers! I was ready to make that investment in myself at any cost which happened to be affordable in my opinion!

I messaged her immediately in the middle of that night and began with an introduction call and felt so great about this journey I was ready to take and began booking sessions!

Cherlyn healed Traumas from my past relationships that years of therapy never could! She used specialized techniques and able to assess and ask questions to get to the root of the problem and traumas.

GOH brings a step by step guide through expert very detailed modules to be with you every step of the journey to getting over him and healing. She also brings science, education, and awareness.

Prior to GOH I did not know what a Narcassist was or Sociopath. I thought they were adjectives and not actual mental diagnosis which happened to be my ex-husband. And understanding what type of man I was dealing helped so much because I really do not want to make that mistake again, it would be detrimental and I may not be so lucky as I am now to have survived a toxic relationship like that.

Cherlyn understood every feeling and trauma and pain and customized healing sessions for me. She really cares and is not some cookie cutter. She adjusts as needed to meet you where you are and addresses things that come up.

Like gardening, she finds the roots and weeds, pulls them outs, heals and harvests the soil, allows you to plant new seeds and shows you how to cultivate them to take new root to be on their way to blossom. And like a new gardener, we may not get all the weeds or lingering roots and she sees what all weeds are and works with you to get them out.

After just the 1st session, I already began to take notice to small things that showed me this was working. It has been so long I was carrying relational traumas and pain and resentment that I did not realize my voice changed from what it once was. And after a couple sessions, my sweet voice came back, joy came back, and my light and flame within began to burn and slowly grow brighter melting away the layers or calous built around my heart.

I am so grateful to Cherlyn and GOH and can say it has been only 4 months and my life has dramatically changed!!! Prior to this it was hard to smile and I was consumed by sadness and anger and suffered from anxiety attacks. Now I have peace, carry no sadness, no regrets and no anxiety! I smile and love myself and am still on a journey but it is to become a better version of myself; the best version of myself. And without healing from those traumas, none of this or a brighter future could have been possible!

So if you are results oriented and all about getting things done and moving on, the this no nonsense GOH program will get you there. It won't be easy, but nothing is and your future self will thank you!

During one of the most difficult relationships and a traumatic breakup, Cherlyn and her GOH program were incredibly helpful. The online modules, one-on-one talks and her being readily available at anytime via chat was amazing! I feel sooooo much better after her program. Also helpful is the online group, where shared experiences and advice make one realize that they’re not alone.

Since completing her program, I’ve finally met an amazing man and feel happy and complete. Thank you, Cherlyn!

Hi everyone, I joined Cherlyn’s Get Over Him program because after 10 months of leaving my narcissistic ex, I still had daily intrusive thoughts and my mind was constantly going back and replaying the horrible things he did and said.

These obsessive thoughts were driving me crazy and no matter how hard I tried to distract myself and refocus I couldn’t stop them.

A great milestone for me came when I received a message from neighbours from our lake cottage, saying they saw my narcissistic ex out there with his new girlfriend and how sorry they were about us splitting up.

His new supply just happens to be an acquaintance of mine who I’ve known my entire life, they started a relationship within a week after I left him.

Normally these types of messages would send me into a tailspin of dark emotions, sadness and I would start replaying a bunch of negative thoughts in my head. In the past it would take me a week or two to get over it.

When I read that message, I thought, "NO, you are not stealing anymore of my sunshine or ruining anymore of my days." Then I thought about how terrible the new gf feels right now and how many times she has been devalued, gaslighted and lied to too. And I found that I didn't give a f$&k.

And I honestly feel great, happy and thankful that it’s not me out there at the lake with him. After that betrayal, she can have him.

I’m proud of myself as this is a huge milestone for me and I couldn’t have done it without the help of this awesome program.

Lately I have had so many people tell me that I look so happy and that I am glowing, which is really nice to hear after everything I have been through the past year. When I looked back at pictures of myself when I was with my ex, I was shocked at how vacant and tired I looked. My eyes had no sparkle and I looked like a broken woman.

Now, without all the stress, I'm loving the way I look in the mirror.

I have to send a huge thank you to Cherlyn Chong and the GOH program, because she has helped me get my happiness and sparkle back. I started the program 2 months ago and I cannot say enough good things about it.

Much Love
Shannon

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My name is Kelly, I am 29, a fork lift driver from Brisbane.

I had come from an emotionally, mentally and sexually abusive relationship that had ended because I found out he had cheated on me with one of my mates. I had a lot of trouble feeling like I was good enough and that I wasn’t able to heal and move on from what had happened.

I felt extremely hurt, lost, confused... you name it, I felt it. It was a struggle I was facing every single day.

I watched an interview with Cherlyn and Jade which really inspired me to feel like there was a chance that this could change. So I booked a free call with Cherlyn and after that I had no doubt in my mind I was going all in.

I made the decision from the start to go all in and give it everything I had. I wanted to change. After joining I was able to have better sleep, a much more better mindset and have a lot more faith and hope that things are changing for the better. This all happened within 2 weeks of joining, NO JOKE!!!!! I still have a little bit to work on but from what I’ve gotten in the past 2 weeks is something I haven’t been able to achieve any other way.

I feel incredibly grateful for everything Cherlyn has done for me in this program and how much she has helped me. I honestly thought feeling this way was impossible but it’s definitely possible.

Anyone who is unsure about joining my advice to them is please please please DO IT!!! It may seem impossible that things won’t or can’t change but they can. Go all in and give it everything you have 100%. You have the chance to change your life and with this program it is truly possible.

You can not put a price on your happiness and working on yourself. The feeling you have after all the hard work you put into yourself is worth every cent you put into it and it is worth the feeling you get out of it.

I have no regrets about joining this program, I’m more then grateful for finding this program and for Cherlyn helping me along the way.

I’m so incredibly excited for my future and what is ahead for me. Please don’t hesitate and give it a go. Any questions is more then welcome :).

Steps to Happyness is a great program that you can take at your own pace. It gave me access to different information that I had never learned before. As a woman in my 30s, I would have thought I would know the basics by now, but I had a couple of life lessons I didn't know how to negotiate, and this helped me with that.

I’ve been following Cherlyn’ s videos and master classes for awhile , but it wasn’t until 4 weeks ago when I was watching the video “the science behind why women love men who hurt us."

I knew after that live video that I had to take action right there and then as I was fed up of the way my ex was keeping me stuck from moving on to a new and healthy relationship for four years .

Yes four long entire years of break up make up , lies , mind games , confusion , anxiety , but for some reason I would always go back . Why was I so stuck ? I know I can do so much better , why the heck was I still going back to this man? Why did this man have so much power over me ?

I did a lot of work on myself after my toxic marriage (another relationship) ended over 5 years ago. After that ended , I made a commitment to myself to become a better woman. But after 5 years of continuous courses , therapists , programs , although I was growing and learning I still had the symptoms and was still in the same boat with my most recent ex. When there is narcissistic abuse I think it becomes a totally different level of work .

I had a free coaching call with Cherlyn and after I had explained to her my pain she reassured me that I could be healed in 2 weeks . I was so excited and joined her program get over him straight away . No hesitation or questions I knew I had to do this for me !

The online program was amazing but the best part of the program was Cherlyn’s core identity healing methods , that have totally healed me from my anxiety , emotional pain , anguish , the push and pull effect effect of my ex , the love addiction and emotional traumas that I had been carrying all this time from my toxic marriage and ex husband prior to this man over 5 years ago .

Cherlyn helped me to achieve all of this healing in 2 weeks ! Now I am free , empowered , have no anxiety , no emotional traumas and pain . I actually feel like I am a brand new woman again . I am still in contact with my ex but because I am healed I feel that I am coming from a place comfort, peace , calmness , clarity which is absolutely amazing !

Thank you so much Cherlyn you are amazing and thank you for your help and for healing me. If it wasn’t for the universe bringing you into my life I would still be stuck in the vicious , painful cycle that I had found myself in for those four years . Awareness , growth , healing and Cherlyn’s core identity healing has been my saviour .

Forever grateful . Thank you so much Cherlyn . ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️

I guess this one's a bit overdue. :) Shoutout to Cherlyn!

It was the 3rd or 4th Q of the year 2018 when I decided to book a call with Cherlyn. That time it had been around 21 months already since I found out that my LDR ex (of 6 years) was getting married to another girl, someone he introduced to me online as a friend and whom I started caring about as a younger sister who needed advice and support. I was stuck in a cycle of blocking and unblocking him and that girl. They were already married for months during that time of the year that I decided to ask help from Cherlyn. When I heard that the marriage already happened, the last bit of hope died out, but it didn't stop me from having a so so life that still revolved around the betrayal, hurt, and pain from that experience.

During that time also, I was in a relationship with a guy who basically used me in so many ways and gave me trauma. I broke up with him thrice. The last time I did, he told me he will never come back anymore because enough is enough. Well, he was mad that I was consulting with Cherlyn about him, and that the feedback from her and my other friends were negative. Less than two weeks after our breakup, he was already seeing another woman and in less than a month became facebook official with her. They are now married and with a child. Two or three months into our relationship, Cherlyn advised me to stop seeing him because he wasn't good for me, but I was stubborn and I wanted to prove to people that there is good coming out of that relationship. I was wrong, and until now he still owes me money. (LOL)

There was a time during my relationship with the second guy that I walked out of my own room while he was asleep at 3 AM and went to a park nearby and wept like I never had done before. I was cursing both exes while sitting on a bench in that park and talking to the stars why I am hurting so badly. My sessions with Cherlyn and the modules from the GOH program helped me a lot in setting my priorities straight and setting up goals that I have lost sight of. I managed to get over the first ex in less than 2 months after being stuck for 21 months before. I managed to break free as well with the second ex. It was good luck that I was still undergoing Cherlyn's program when I was with the second ex. I got rid of the trauma that I got from the second ex with Cherlyn's guidance.

Three years after breaking up with the first ex and I am so much happier now. Last month, he told me he can't stop thinking about me, and that he was truly sorry for what he did to me. I had the foresight to tell him years ago that he will never be truly happy with her, and he told me exactly the same thing last month. Am I happy that he said those things? Not really. Because I wish them happiness and not suffering. But I did tell him to work on his marriage, and that I will block him completely if he repeats those words to me.

Relying on time to heal the wounds is not a good idea. Talking about the pain for months to friends who eventually got tired of me talking about my exes is not a good idea. I had to start doing something concrete for myself. I had to mindfully put myself on the top of that list of my priorities. Working on myself with Cherlyn's guidance is one of the best decisions I've made in the past years. And the results were not only about me moving on from toxic romantic relationships but also me starting to surround myself with healthy boundaries from all kinds of relationships, especially with my family and at the workplace.

I am still a work in progress, but I am learning quite a lot, and I am positive that with or without a partner, I'd be happily thriving to reach my goals. Wishing you all the same!

I first started working with Cherlyn as I was going through separation after a 20 year relationship. I was in a very bad place when we first started working together and had little to no self esteem, self worth it even any idea if who I was.
I booked a call with Cherlyn and she immediately put me at ease and helped me to process my immediate situation. I chose to start working with Cherlyn and am so glad and grateful that I did. I really don’t know how I could have done this without her.
We have worked through so many things together and she has been by my side to cheer me on and support me at every turn.
Not only in healing from my marriage separation but in dealing with old patterns, beliefs and behaviours that were damaging to me, helping and supporting me with work and financial education, social awareness and developing better friendships through my own growth and development so that I could be a better friend and all the while using good humour, compassion, patience and nurturing to pick me up when I fell on my face (which happened a number of times but she never gave up on me).
I am forever grateful for your support Cherlyn you helped me to see the good in things far beyond what I expected going in to my coaching with you. You have shown me that my place in the world is valid and unique and that I am worthy of love and friendship.
My business is going better because of your help and I now feel like I can do this. Very much thanks to your unwavering kindness and support.
I even have a great friendship with my ex now and Cherlyn helped me to take responsibility for my actions and create the boundaries I needed to move forward with this relationship successfully into friendship.
I would definitely recommend Cherlyn to anyone that is struggling after a break up or indeed at any time they are needing to get back on track.
It is an extremely challenging time and there are so many layers to process. It is a difficult journey and I had to dig deep and go through some very dark times but I was determined to put in the work that Cherlyn provided me with and she made it so much easier to get to the other side.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Lots of love Monica

Cherlyn helped me when I was in a horrible place after the break up of my 19yr marraige. She helped to teach me how to cope with the loss and hurt. She was there for me with all different stragies to help move forward. She is a gem!!
Through Cherlyns help I have been able to move forward and find myself a new partner. He is amazing, respectful and kind.
I absolutely recommend Cherlyn to any lady who needs help dealing with a break up and moving forward in their lives. She will help you realize your worth so much more.

Cherlyn is a life coach I highly recommend to anyone who has had a tough breakup (especially if they where a narcissist, or for any one who needs a push in life.

I met Cherlyn through a Facebook post, when I was at my lowest point in my life, going through a divorce with a narc and also stuck in a job that really does not value me.

Working with Cherlyn made me realize how the ex and my job are linked to my belief system. Not feeling valued in my marriage was just a continuation in my job. Something for me had to change and doing the work with Cherlyn has taught me things I never knew was in me.

Cherlyn's program is not for the faint hearted as you will find your strength, courage and grit in ways that you never thought possible. I broke down and tried to quit several times, but Cherlyn with her loving and firm nature, stood by me through my obstacles. She did warn me that she will not abandon me until I got my results.

I have been pushed out of my comfort zone and now I am applying for jobs that I at one point thought I was not good enough for. Cherlyn has made me see my potential and has encouraged me to use my grit and just go for it. The most scariest thing is putting myself out there, but I did it and I have had a few call backs for interviews. I patiently wait the outcome 😉.

Well as for the narc ex, he history. I no longer get triggered off by him. Some people are just who they are.

To all those who are feeling stuck or going through that "breakup", please reach out and talk to someone who will help you get through what you are going through - call and speak to Cherlyn!!

Cherlyn you have helped me break belief systems I had about myself. Today I am a much stronger and confident woman who is going after what I want!!!

Thank you Cherlyn for your love, time and patience putting up with me. You definitely have a heart of Gold!!💛

When I first saw Cherlyn’s Facebook link on the science behind successful women who choose toxic men, I knew instantly that she was the woman for the job. Being a single mum with not a lot of money, I had no hesitations or reservations in partnering up with Cherlyn to help me get over my ex. Whilst time is an important factor to healing, Cherlyn supplied me with a vast selection of tools that were customised to what I needed...but the best part about Cherlyn, is her genuine, raw honesty, no bs rubbish and her ability to make me laugh SO hard that I think that’s what actually healed me in a time where I believed there was nothing to laugh about anymore. Thank you Cherlyn for not letting go until I was ready to, and thank you for staying with me til the end. Forever grateful for you being the only person on earth to stick by my side and coach me through some dark times. I hope we stay in touch forever as you are worth Gold xxx

It was in September 2017 when I chanced upon a Huffington post featuring Cherlyn’s work as a heartbreak specialist. I was going through the traumatic heartbreak of my failed relationship then, and Cherlyn’s insightful drawings and reflections struck a chord in me. I signed up for her Heartbreak Buddy mini course then as I was looking for an avenue to relief my heartbreak.

The daily emails and strategies backed up by scientific research helped distract my mind, but it was a deeply dredged relationship that took its repetitive course of cycles (where I was still in communication with the ex). I found it tough to even perform No-Contact.

In January 2018, I met up with the ex after an internal confusion of anger mixed with longing and lust, only to have my heart smashed again. At that moment, where the thought of suicide even crossed my mind, I mustered all the remaining shreds of strength I had left in me to reach out to my 2 bffs and also booked a call with Cherlyn. The first Deep Dive session she did with me already lightened the pain that was slicing my soul by half - I am not exaggerating. Cherlyn, with her insightful perception, knew what I needed more than anything then was the answers I knew I would never be able to get from my ex. I didn’t need comfort (that I got from my bffs). I just needed straight answers to my burning questions.

I did another Deep Dive session with her and felt like I could support myself from then. I took on a new job then and was doing it together with my sideline to keep my mind really busy. Yet somehow, I still managed to find time to go online dating, and in the process, attracted another sleazeball (disguised as a seeming soulmate who shared common interests with me) but who was also emotionally unavailable.

I was thrown into another tumult of turbulent emotions, having not fully recovered from my heartbreak, and dealing with two douchebags. (At the time, I also unblocked my ex and was in communication with him)

It was around August 2018 when I finally got really sick of the emotional turmoil I was putting myself in again and again and decided to block both men for good. I continued to try to numb myself in my work.

It seems the stars were aligned when I came across Cherlyn’s new mini series of videos on the science of letting go. I felt like this is it. I need to make a change in my life with regards to emotionally unavailable guys and I booked that call with Cherlyn. The rest was history.

Although I was initially apprehensive about the coaching fee, Cherlyn gently, but also firmly showed me that if I was serious about helping myself, there are always ways to overcome the moolah factor. She was the supportive coach from the start, and sent me info on a 0% interest installment plan I could take up with my local bank. The priority was whether I wanted to get myself out of it once and for all.

I knew then that was going to be a turning point for me. No more going back and forth, no more hemming and hawing. I will always remember Cherlyn’s classic phrase “You either choose your future, or your drama. There are no buts, no grey areas. This or that.” That formed the basis of most of my sessions thereafter, and I had to say it helped shape the beginning of the way I started to make decisions for myself, not just my relationship.

Working with Cherlyn was tough work, cos she is a tough coach. But supportive in her own ways. She minced no words, she pushed when she needed me to achieve my goals, but she was also empathetic when I faltered in my journey. She constantly reminded that as my coach, she isn’t there as a like-able personality. The focus is on the goal. Of course, I had my own moments of resistance and do not swallow hook, line sinker. But Cherlyn, in her work with me, had also inculcated a more decisive streak as compared to my past self. Under her coaching, I learned that responsibility to self and decision making always goes hand in hand. The responsibility to self is vital, and forms the basis of decisions I make thenceforth.

It was not a couple of months after working with Cherlyn that I got together with my current bf, who was my ex-colleague in my previous hellish job. My ex colleagues then formed the brightest light in that dark tunnel. It was the first time I received a girlfriend proposal, and he very sweetly spent the two weeks I was away preparing for it, even roping in some of his friends to help him. I was apprehensive about accepting a new relationship so fast, and Cherlyn had her concerns too, but she assured me time and again how I feel is always the most important. I did not agree to the relationship immediately, but his patience and non pressure won me over. It was easily one of the best decisions I made in 2018, and it was also one of the earliest things I got manifested with Cherlyn’s work - a sweet guy who woke up next to me on New Year’s Eve, except that Santa came earlier that year and gave me my gift on Christmas Day.

Next, manifesting my job. The speed at which my previous job ended came at a surprising speed that shocked both Cherlyn and me, but we knew better things beckoned. When I was done with that hellhole, I started putting all my focus and energies into working with Cherlyn on manifesting my career. We were jubilant when the first and second interviews for the teaching positions came in, but they were not to be. It was a string of rejections for the interviews I attended, and I took it hard, because teaching interviews all require preparation and lesson demo, and I poured my heart and soul into each one. At the same time, I was also facing turmoil from some personal family matters, and my emotions took a plunge. During this period, my bf was a constant rock. He was always patient with me, offering me advice and suggestions and comfort where needed. His reassurance coupled with logic formed a very sound support system for me. Cherlyn was there to nudge me when I needed to be nudged, support me from a distance when I needed breaks, and to provide reality checks where required to. The job manifestation took a much longer time than we anticipated, but we finally realized the crux of the matter lay in the fact that I needed to make a complete career change. For months, I was also befuddled and uncertain of my career choices - to continue in current industry which was too niche, to return back to the industry I previously left or to try new things. Eventually, the months panned out and the choice became clearer as days passed. Although Cherlyn felt it took such a long time, 6 months vs the 3 months we planned for initially, nonetheless, I felt the journey and time was worth it all. Through the different interviews I attended, I felt like I was uncovering a new piece of understanding myself better through each one, and the choice became clearer. At the end of it, I finally received two offers, and it was apparent which I would take up. The offers came as soon as I let go of my anxiety, and learned to deal with each rejection better by focusing on the next, and just persevering forward. This is by no means any easy feat. Like most ladies here, we were more emotionally inclined and rejection does not sit well. But I learned to put Cherlyn’s strategies to action (as I said I would during our contact signing) and just pressed on.

May I also add that, in addition to manifesting that job, that offers much better benefits and stability, it also offered me the exact salary that Cherlyn and I manifested for? Hehe #manifestationrocks

Cherlyn is a coach I would highly recommend to anyone who is not just going through heartbreak, but also seeking a complete turnabout in her life choices. However be forewarned that working with Cherlyn is tough work. You need to be able to commit to yourself 100%, no grey areas =)

Thank you so so much Cherlyn. You have my gratitude and appreciation for the internal transformation work you have done with me, and the plethora of resources that will aid me in my journey henceforth. I know I have said it, but I will say it again, I couldn’t have made it this far without you honestly.

The story starts when I turned twenty. I married young, to a man I didn't really love and who didn't really love me. Sure, the first year together was great, and being so young and naive I didn't question the red flags. I didn't question the neglect, the control of finances. As the years passed it got worse and worse and my tolerance grew thin.
I got sicker and sicker with an eating disorder, food and exercise was the one thing that was mine alone, and I wanted my body to show how much I was suffering on the inside. I ended up in hospital a few times; eventually I left my marriage. Moved back to the city I called home and jumped straight into another unhealthy relationship. My lonely heart begging for love from anyone who showed the slightest interest. Unfortunately, I moved from terrible to horrific. This man love bombed me, told me all the things I needed to hear, was aching to hear. Again, I ignored the many and varied red flags. He used me in many ways, he took my hard earned money (I had literally come from a bank balance of zero, with no job when I left my marriage), he ended up taking my possessions, he took my dignity and self respect. He cheated, he manipulated, he used me and violated my trust. I hit rock bottom.
Somehow, I found Cherlyn's facebook group, I joined and lurked there for several months, reading posts, crying everyday, going back to him and continuing the vicious cycles of abuse. I can't tell you how many times I clicked the link to make a private call with Cherlyn and chickened out. But once I had moved back to my home town, moved away from him and made my life less chaotic I finally booked the call. That call was the most loving thing I have ever done for myself.
The road to healing has been hard, and every day I make the decision to keep choosing myself, my happiness. But it is not something I could have done alone, I needed help and support and Cherlyn gave it to me in abundance - she actually took time to message with me on Christmas day when I was hiding in my bedroom crying over a gift he had given me. Cherlyn helped me see sense when he asked me to drop my life and move back to marry him (yes... I kept going back... so. many. times.) Every time she has helped me choose me. I couldn't have done it alone, Cherlyn was a gift from God.

Now, I am happy and content. I do things for myself, I'm becoming the woman I used to be, the woman I've always meant to be.

Cherlyn changed my life forever!

I had several areas in my life where I could not get past my past and Cherlyn helped me in ways that traditional therapy could not even begin to touch. She helped me reconnect with my voice and stop allowing my history to shape my future. She is knowledgeable, kind, and caring and my life is absolutetly better because I know her. I highly recommend Cherlyn if you want someone who knows what they are doing AND who truly cares about making your life better. This girl knows her stuff! After working with Cherlyn I got my boyfriend to propose and now we are happily married in a brand new house that we built together after a wedding in Capri, Italy! All this with a guy who said he would never get married!!! We are so happy and I am eternally grateful!

I needed help getting strong enough to face my fears and found that with Cherlyn.

I am an Australian sole business owner who is going through a traumatic time getting over a damaging relationship as well as having a history of attracting the wrong men. I confided in Cherlyn and had 2 lengthy conversations around all this as a prequel to doing her course. When I enquired about the price of the course, she became cagey and wouldn’t disclose this to me saying she would call me a few days later as she needed an answer on the day. (I wasn’t allowed time to think about it or to work it into my finances). She then left a text message the next day saying that due to a bad phone connection she would have to turn me down as a client. (This is not true - we had a couple of attempts at first which weren’t great, but the last hour was perfect). I find this knock back very destructive as not only was it false, but being in a very fragile place, it has left me reeling and feeling as bad as I did when the guys in my life have been treating me this way. (Being left). I would not trust this woman as I believe she should be transparent about the cost of her course when people ask. Especially when she says it’s not about money for her! Disgraceful for someone who is meant to care about people’s feelings!!!

Chatting with Cherlyn each time just made me feel so much better. She really has a knowing into human psychology. Thank you for helping me during this tumultuous period.

We can’t go through life alone, especially when we are at our lowest point in life. A few years ago, I was at that point. The man I thought I was going to one day marry, decided to move half way across the world to be away from me. I had found out that he, an active duty military man, had also been active on the same site where we had met during the year and a half we were dating. I was also dealing with other major things in my life: the death of my sister, my parents were moving away to another state, and my teaching job that was beyond stressful. I was hopelessly alone and I was truly in a dismal frame of mind.

Then my life changed with Cherlyn.

A good friend had sent me The Huffington Post that featured Cherlyn’s comic. I’ve read it over and over and it truly had resonated with me. Even though I had never met her before, she was like me in a lot of ways, especially going through the most dreadful experience of heartbreak and loss. It was a comic that I would’ve done. The comic led to her website, which allowed me to reach out to Cherlyn, who was quick to respond.

She had scheduled two free video sessions with me. I remember our first video session was in the Fall of 2017. She was welcoming and made me laugh a lot. She was as if I was talking to one of my best friends! That was how comfortable she made me feel. Not only is Cherlyn a talented artist, but she really knows her craft of working with the psychology of relationships. She’s got a plethora of knowledge backed up with legit research, but presents it in a way that normal people like me understand. She was able to read me right off the bat, in an honest way that I’ve never saw myself. Here I was a single woman living solo in the big city of LA, approaching my mid thirties, emotionally scarred from heartbreak, grief, and stress. It was clear that I couldn’t deal with my issues on my own. Fed up, I did not have the time to waste on going through the same heartache. I wanted to move forward in my life and I’ve trusted Cherlyn to help me through. For once, I needed to choose my well being and happiness—and that was investing in myself to heal from heartbreak and start a new chapter in my life.

During our sessions, we took a close look into my relationship past. Cherlyn was able to help me identify patterns in the men that I’ve dated and why I tend to put up with the wrong men. She also helped me understand my habits during dating that allow myself to be hurt in the end. With Cherlyn, I was able to get over my ex in just a little over a month! Without her (and also the support of her Facebook group) I probably would have been wasting my life away trying to get my ex back. NOPE! I don’t need that form of toxic relationship back in my life! I needed to focus on myself first before dating anyone new. I’ve been on a few dates during my year of being single but Cherlyn helped me date myself, first and foremost! Cherlyn formulated a specific action plan in my life and acted as my accountability person. She not only helped me in my personal life, she helped me with my professional life. Within a few months working with her, I’ve got a new job as a teacher and moved out state to be closer to family.

Not long after I moved, I had met the love of my life. Within 3 weeks, he told me he didn’t want to see anyone else and asked me to be his girlfriend! Here was a man who wants commitment just as much as I do! Committed men do exist! I’d love to think it was all because I was just lucky. But really, it was because I AM FABULOUSLY AWESOME.. and so are YOU!! Can I hear an Amen?! YAS!! It takes commitment to ourselves to show how fabulously awesome we are. With the amazing support of Cherlyn, I’ve
gained the confidence to know myself well and not repeat the same mistakes. Without her, I would have been still lost in the dark side of dating. Now I’ve seen the light, and I am the happiest I’ve ever been. I am with a man who is not only is beautiful on the outside but beautiful on the inside. He treats me with love and respect and makes me laugh and smile like no other. Don’t lose hope ladies, your man is out there for you! However, in order to find him, it takes action on your part!

For those who are on the fence about whether Cherlyn’s help is worth the price tag... IT SO IS! Think of it as choosing to invest yourself first. If money is an issue, Cherlyn offers reasonable payment plans. I am a school teacher so I know that I have to be mindful about how I spend my money.

Bottom line: I would not be where I am without Cherlyn. This is why I want to let every person who is experiencing a broken heart about the work Cherlyn does. She can help fix it and make your heart whole again. If you want to turn things around, the choice is yours. By choosing to work with Cherlyn, you are choosing your “happyness.” CHOOSE YOU.

Before I met Cherlyn I was in a complete low state of mind. My ex-boyfriend of almost 5 years and I broke up. He was my first love, and first everything else, so I truly was having the hardest time getting over what had happened. I felt so miserable, hopeless, like I was never going to get past the hurt and betrayal that I felt, since he had already broken my heart before and then begged me to take him back... The betrayal I felt was endless, and I truly believed that it would take YEARS before I could ever put myself in such a vulnerable position and gave myself another chance in love.

After our work together it felt like a huge weight was lifted from my shoulders. That anger, hurt and confusion over what happened, that nobody else seemed to have the answers for Cherlyn did, and that was honestly amazing to me. People always give you this ambiguous answers when you just go through a break up, not Cherlyn, she went straight to the point and just knew. Her knowledge and the fact that she had answers to questions that felt would never get answers for is something that to this day I feel helped tremendously in my process of moving on.
Working with her made me want to do better, to be better, I was tired of feeling miserable, and she gave me all the right incentives to push through those doubts and conflicts in my head. It was such an important change for me. I was so caught up with my ex, and so dependant on him, I didn't really notice it until we broke up. Being with Cherlyn helped me realize this, proved how absolutely wrong that was and how I could be successful and a badass all on my own. That I didn't need my ex or any other man for that matter to help me be a successful and stable adult. I had the whole power to do it on my own, and to be grateful and realize how far I had actually gone in my life as it is, and that was not my ex's doing, but mine. She showed me how to OWN IT, and for that I am extremely grateful to her.

I would recommend Cherlyn to women out there who really are just done with their ex bull****, but also have the financial ability to do so. As someone with low income this could be a very difficult thing to follow through due to that factor, and I believe that if I had any reservations it would be that, so just as long as you are sure you can afford this, as well as want to follow through the program then I would say %110 go for it!

If you truly feel that you're tired, want to work on yourself and commit to it, then she is the one for you :)

I am eternally grateful to Cherlyn and her program steps to happyness!!! I owe her my life!! When I joined her program (I first joined her FB page) I was in such a deep state of despair, sadness and felt really depressed when my partner left me after cheating. I felt as though I couldn't go on. NOW.... I have completely changed in more ways than I ever could have imagined. I got over my ex of 7 years (2 babies, an engagement and a house later) in 4 months!!! I've lost so much excess weight, meditate and practice yoga daily. I have completed a course and launched my very own business. I'm so much more calmer and relaxed with my children, have more energy, have a social life, have a new sense of confidence and have found my self worth. I would highly recommend anyone who's just gone through a break up to definitely contact Cherlyn, dive on in and get your damn life back with a new and improved version of your old self!! You seriously will not regret it! Cherlyn, I'll never forget you. Thank you, thank you, thank you xxx