Reflex Media, Inc. Reviews 41

My bank have blacklisted this site due as i later found out to several complaints from bank customers of being defrauded .
I only found this out after a failed attempt to subscribe due to my bank blacklisting them . When i contacted seeking.com customer service ( Kate) to discuss the problem & ask for an explanation , i received a reply telling me that i had been banned for « violating their terms of use. « Avoid this site unless you want to be scammed it appears to be run by crooks

This site contains a lot of fake profiles. These are people who take photos on the net and make fake profiles. I also think the site has bots. Profiles of women who do not exist and who come from Venezuela. The purpose of these bots is to get you back to the site.
But let's talk about the most interesting. The women on this site are often lazy people who want your money and don't give anything back. They are looking for victims. They are scammers.
Rule of thumb: Never send money online. Moreover, if you send money by paypal or Western union, you will reveal your identity it is not a good idea.
Some women are not respectful. For example a woman can chat with you telegram or whatsapp and then she will answer you every 5 minutes because she is watching a netflix movie.
Some are psychologically unstable. Be careful, in some countries you can easily be falsely accused of sexual assault, harassment or rape.
I have also seen profiles of transsexuals. There are also mythomaniac women who talk nonsense to lure you.
Don't focus on photos of beautiful women. They're just bait.
There are also a few escorts. They are often problem girls. I think there are dedicated sites for this kind of thing and these sites are free.

This site isn't what it once was. I used this site successfully (even had a successful relationship for 2 years). The pandemic changed it (google Seeking "pandemic scam"). Now due to US laws they have to change or be shut down. Because of this it has become a cesspool of online only (pandemic scammers) and fake profiles or hustlers that want you to send them money and not interested in meting. That is if you are lucky enough not to be banned (seems to only impact men mostly) after paying $90 per month with no recourse (you have been warned). I deleted my profile after 2 weeks. I just wanted to try them out after being absent since 2020. NOPE! Not saying there is better out there, but I am fine not to date online - post pandemic is has become a cesspool everywhere... but this site takes the cake in scamming (both the site as it relates to men and the "girls" - which many times I suspect are dudes scamming anyways using stolen insta shopped photos so you can't reverse search them and get hits). There you go! You have been warned many times (look here, look at their old name reviews on here under seeking arrangements and other site reviews are all poor).

If I could give this dating/hookup site no stars, I definitely would! I got deleted after only a few hours of joining. I never got the chance to even converse with any members! I emailed them and asked them why they deleted me, but they never gave any reason at all. Also, there are very sparse members on this site, and the majority of them were married. I count it a blessing to be deleted! I felt this was God saving me! Don't waste your time! They have horrible reviews all across the board!

I'm male, and set up a simple initial profile with one basic portrait picture on seeking.com. The profile just had some biographical info about me, no proposition, nothing about what I was looking for. I barely had time to browse around. I didn't even click on anyone else's profile and hadn't even finished setting up my account. In about 5-10 minutes I got logged out. When I tried to log in again, it said my account was deleted. Upon contacting customer service, I got the lovely gem of a response copied below.

I was open to paying for a premium account, but they are completely untrustworthy now. I wouldn't want them having access to my credit card. This is the worst customer experience, and customer service attitude I've seen at any company.

Don't bother. If they randomly delete your account while they have your credit card, they could keep charging it and you'll have to file fraud claims with your bank.

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Hi there,

Thank you for your inquiry regarding your account. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. Please review our FAQs for further information.

You are banned from Seeking.com and any of our sister sites. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a continued violation of our Terms of Use. Our decision is final and any future inquiries about this suspension will not receive a response.

Best Regards,
Sydney
Seeking Support

More expensive than competitors, while seeming to have more fakes and unresponsive woman. In addition, one can get easily banned without proper explanation, and their understanding of what's allowed and what isn't is questionable, to say the least. Horrible site, avoid at all costs. If possible, go to other sugardating sites.

Seems to be particularly biased against men, where men get banned easily, while woman do not.

I have paid to join this website. Then, i received a warning for using this website for commercial use. This is a paradox. A SB/SD relationship is a commercial arrangement.
Then, I discovered the website was packed with scammers.
Sugar babies aren't forced to get ID verified. So, there are many fake profiles on the site. A man can easily impersonate a woman. Very few women on the website don't get verified at all even if this website allows them to get verified thanks to their instagram, their facebook, their ID.
I have been scammed several times.
I paid webcam chat session upfront and I got nothing in return.
More importantly, seeking.com does not NOTHING to protect their customers. It is OUTRAGEOUS.

When the date approach to unsubscribe the expensive subscription they lock your account saying you need a code they sent on your email that actually they don t sent. SCAM

FORMERLY "SEEKING ARRANGEMENT.COM", CHANGED THE NAME TO JUST "SEEKING.COM"

GIGANTIC RIP-OFF and may be a FRONT FOR PROSTITUTION as well!

Billed as a "Dating Site," oh sure, if you can or want to PAY for it - Dating site my xxx. It appears there are quite a few women on the site, however MOST OF THEM ARE NOT ACTIVE, and SA does not remove their profile. I spent a little time removing the non-current listings and the total number of viable women was astonishingly LOW.

Extremely expensive. why does one have to pay this site when, if so inclined, you could find 100's of women for free on numerous websites - same types, same services, lets face it, i feel this place is a camouflaged site to locate prostitutes.

I also personally believe they utilize SHILLS of fake profiles. I found some where a woman was using a previous woman's profile who was no longer on the system. Also, some women that seemed to live on this system, and would never give you any real info, they are either emotionally sad wanna-be or fakes - neither of which you want to pay for.

Most of the women thought they were god's gift, often referring to themselves as "Eye candy" or "Arm Candy" well unfortunately they had overblown ideas of how they looked. Most are average to slightly above average, many are outright losers and lowlifes. Many ARE NOT in great shape, though they post these ridiculous pictures of themselves in overweight, unprofessional poses, or looking like carnival tramps on a "Busman's Holiday."

Another facet, these women, when queried as to what they were seeking, said they wanted XXX$ for an allowance or whatever...they gotta be kidding, what planet are they from? That's why precisely most of them are beggars and sad mooches because they have about as much chance of getting this amount of coin as i do of getting picked to man a NASA space ship.

A good many of the women I communicated with were truly ignorant, under-educated, and unpleasant, few social skills (because they were not taught any by their equally deficient parents), trailer trash; the type I would never have to my house- they appear to me like they would be better off standing on a street corner soliciting business!

And then when you ask them what they want they throw out $ figures that are absurd, these desperate women are living in a Fantasyland that no man would offer these very average (or worse, just comical)!

SAVE YOUR MONEY - THIS IS A TOTAL WASTE OF TIME AND MONEY - there are FREE (or much cheaper) sites where you can get a better far better selection, this is the dregs..

Site is very interesting and it’s real with several things to get rid of.

I have been on for 3 months and went on 2 dates. Not what am use to. When I go on a dating site am on dates every week.

This site does have bots and fake pages. But, so do the other dating sites. You just have to figure out how not to get caught up in that. If it’s too good to be real perhaps that’s your sign to not chat with that person. It’s like we are trained to look for only red flags when we should be trained to look for the opposite 😆

My 2 dates were legit. I did a reverse telephone number check and was able to confirm where they worked at. First date was a quick meet & greet short lunch date. He seemed interested then in a couple of days I never heard back from him. He even told me thank you for looking like my picture because he had experienced some crazy stuff.

Second date I actually had a blast. We spent the entire day together. We went to a shooting range then had dinner. When I say that we lol all day. We stayed connected for a couple of weeks and no second date🙃 He was separated so, I just took it as he returned back home.

Other than that I haven’t met anyone else worth my time. Many men have on their profile no scammers but, I believe that they are scammers or liars.

The one thing that I have noticed on this site is that they must own your profile once you close it. I have come across way too many profiles that haven’t been active in months some over a year. But, they still keep it in the cycle which isn’t cool at all. This explains why I would see so, many profiles with a disclaimer on it.

I can offer this…be honest. I have several request on my profile. You must be over 40. You must have a profile picture or willing to share a picture. If we start chatting and we are feeling each other we must meet in 7 days. I am not a escort so speak to me nice. I honestly believe that has helped with keeping the fakes away.

I decided to make this month my last month. Just over the other dating apps and thinking how else to meet men. Ever since the pandemic trying to meet men has been a bit hard.

This site can be great if they got rid of all the bots and the old profiles.

Beware they want your ID. I signed up paid my fee and was using the site when I got locked out while they wanted me to update my driving licence or passport. Now if they had said that when you joined and they were happy to take your credit card, I would have walked.

When I challenged them I got a drivel excuse that I had been given a warning. I hadn't. Just locked out until I give a company registered in Cyprus my passport. Maybe I should give then my pin number for my bank accounts also?

Avoid

So.. level set. Sites like this have fakes, scammers and escorts..goes with territory. The real difference is payment method (per message / per month) and success rate.
I used another site for a couple of years, but that's gone significantly down hill (it's excellent TrustPilot rating is a myster). After a month on here:
# be realistic, issues above remain
# 3 meets in a month, different females
# 50% or more of profile likes have never read your profile.
# many females have no idea what they're really looking for
# number of likes/messages/online active profile drops like a stone when you cease to have premium membership
# be thankful you don't pay per message
# being asked to pay to access old messages when subscription expires stinks. We've paid once...why again?

This site was very good a few years ago. Lately there are only scammers on the site. They want you to send money for gas or sell naughty pictures for a price. Stay away, it’s no worth the money.

Why does this say Reflex Media and not Seeking? In any case, not bad so far. On the fence with a couple of guys. There could be some potential here. No lack of men messaging me.

Otherwise known as Seeking Arrangements, the website is the most expensive sugar daddy site I have been on.

With dates asking for $500 and over just to date with little chance of getting in bed with them, you might as well go to the Bunny Ranch north of Las Vegas. The app was pretty ok to find dates.

I was able to go on one date for the price mention above. She was able to flirt with me while having dinner but no bedroom action.

I tried to contact other profiles but some of them ask for $2000 for a monthly allowance with others wanting $700 for a pay per meeting arrangement (PPM for short).

There were other profiles I thought were fake with only one photo and not of the local area.

So, I flag some profiles I thought were fakes and block those I did not like for being too aggressive with their asking me of money.

Several days later, my profile was suspended as being fraudulent. What?!?!

I tried to make the website a lot better for people who want companionship and this is the treatment I got.

When I got the email of what happened, the support email was incomprehensible since the website is based in China.

I guess this Chinese company doesn't want a bad image in order to fleece hard working Americans of the money they earned for some fun that they should get.

Save you money and avoid this website unless you like to waste your money like there is no tomorrow

The site has many beautiful women and most are actually real women, but sadly 80% at LEAST are simply escorts who demand Pay Per Meet for sexual services.
The crazy thing is that (like other reviewers have noted), the customer service is THE WORST. I actually took screenshots of women violating the Terms and Conditions (ie., demanding cash in exchange for sex), and submitted REPORTS to the site in order to alert them to this prostitution activity, but they ended up BANNING me from the site claiming that I was the one who solicited sex. UNBELIEVABLE. Save your money and find another site.

Whether you call it Seeking.com or Seekingarrangement.com.
Refex Media Inc who control both of these site and MORE.
My experience is this like similar web sites Have long since lost what a sugar baby use to be. For the few real sugar babies that I have found on the site, 95% of all the women are playing an angle to get money from you before you meet face to face.
Many I would call a prostitute or a hooker or outright scam artists.
It’s a shame this site had merit at one time maybe 10 years ago. Now it just a haven for scammers and more NON SB.

But I still gave the site ONE STAR For taking my money and making me swim through 95% of sh*** scam artists just to find 5% a real Sugar Baby.
It's a lot of work with little reward.

The website's customer service is at best the worst I have ever had to deal with if your message contains the word "money" and after three times in a separate message containing the word money. they’re going to remove your account their lack of investigation and truly understand who’s at fault no real investments and even if you are a paying member There is no arbitration for you the paying customer.
You might be on the site for quite a few weeks before you actually find a real sugar baby and the amount of crap you have to wade through it’s astonishing just to find a woman who is willing to go out with you for dinner and discuss an arrangement. if they are not requesting Money Upfront to sit down and chat with over dinner. Personally, I don't pay for 1st meets. it's simply a meet and greets and I can find out If the woman has any brains or is just looking for a quick hook up like I said, Prostitutes

NOTE: they should rename the website and structure "SEEKING A KEPT WOMAN" then the expectation would be Yes woman only want your money

seeking arrangements claims to be a hook up site. THIS SITE IS FULL OF ESCORTS AND SEX TRAFFICKED WOMEN. I cannot believe the US Government, State , and Local law enforcement allow Prostitution to flourish.
Every hook up between sugar daddy and baby involves money for sex. Shut this sickening site down. The people running it encourage sex trafficking of women globally and Interpol allows this?