Myspecialdates Reviews 92

TrustScore 1.5 out of 5

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Many customers expressed significant dissatisfaction with their experience, noting concerns about the authenticity of accounts and difficulties in forming genuine connections. They frequently reported that the site made it difficult to exchange contact information, blocking attempts to communicate outside the platform and preventing users from meeting in person. The pricing structure was a major point of dissatisfaction, with many feeling that the site was expensive and designed to continuously drain money through credit purchases. Reviewers also expressed frustration with customer service, noting that complaints often received unhelpful or generic responses, and that attempts to delete profiles were unsuccessful. Some people also expressed concerns about the authenticity of profiles and the methods used to maintain user engagement.

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This site is a scam, impossible to get a real connection, fake account and fake woman. Is a total fraud. Expensive, terrible service and totally useless services. Do not fall for this trap. They make... See more

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I have spent just over $3k talking to one particular woman, what I find interesting is all the niceties that she gave me and all the promises, but there were certain questions I’d ask her, and the av... See more

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Two ladies denied my contact number after long conversations You just want to make money so l won't buy any more credit. Spent over 250 dollars to gradually get each others number to no avail.If you... See more

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

If I could write ZERO I would . WARNING THIS SITE IS A SCAM You will never be allowed to meet the person you like . This site is one big money scam, you’re not talking directly with the real l... See more

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  1. Dating Service

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This is a digital platform designed to connect individuals looking for romantic relationships or companionship. Our site provide a convenient and often more efficient way for people to find potential partners than traditional methods such as meeting through mutual friends, going to bars or clubs, or approaching someone in public. Our site offer a range of features to help users connect with each other, such as messaging, chat rooms, and video calls.


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TrustScore 1.5 out of 5

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

So as I toed the waters i get a sense of a scam .I read all the reviews but none of a successful relationship where they actually meet.

So as I toed the waters i get a sense of a scam .I read the reviews and not one story of a successful hookup. I get a lot of nudes but I can get them anywhere on the internet.

20 November 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Robert,

Thank you for your feedback. We tried to reach out to you via the Trustpilot tool to collect your information to help, but we didn’t receive any details from you, so we are unable to identify you as our user. Please contact our support team directly at support@myspecialdates.com so we can look into your situation and assist you properly.

We appreciate your input and hope we can clarify any concerns you have.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I would have given this site zero stars…

I would have given this site zero stars if it were possible.

I’ve been on this platform as well as several others (SofiaDates, WishDates, RussianBrides, etc.), and the truth is they all operate the same way — and none of it is designed to help you meet a real woman.

At one point, a man who was running one of the profiles I’d been chatting with actually contacted me privately to tell me the truth: these profiles are not controlled by women at all. They’re operated by men working for the agencies. The photos are stolen from social media, modeling sites, or from Ukrainian “photo studios” where real women pose for money, never knowing their images will be used to scam men worldwide.

The chats, the “feelings,” the long letters — none of it is real. It’s a business model. Every message costs you money, and the longer they keep you engaged, the more you spend.

I learned this the hard way. After months of conversations with one woman, I flew all the way to Spain to meet her. She never showed up. She never intended to. The moment she realized I was actually coming, the communication faded… then stopped completely. I was ghosted the second I stopped paying to chat.

If you’re thinking of joining one of these sites, don’t.
If you believe you’re forming a real connection, you’re not.
And if you think you’re the exception, you won’t be.

These sites are not matchmaking services — they’re highly organized scams built around fake profiles, paid actors, and scripted responses. Save your time, money, and emotion. I wish someone had warned me before I wasted both.

16 November 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Jake

We tried to reach out to you via the Trustpilot tool to collect your information and assist you, but unfortunately, you didn’t provide any details that would allow us to identify you as our user. Please contact us directly at support@myspecialdates.com, and our team will be happy to look into your situation and provide support.

We take all reports seriously and are committed to ensuring our users have a safe and genuine experience. Waiting for your contacts so we can assist you further.

Rated 2 out of 5 stars

A bit of a scam

A bit of a scam. Free tokens to begin with, then the money drain begins by buying token packs. Who knows if the women are real, but I think most are. The photo shoots are humorous and sad as most are Ukraine and unfortunately the country is destroyed. You can’t have contact with them. This is a Ponzi scheme, brilliant as it is. I wish I had come up with it to rake in the millions/billions from men looking for a little adventure not a lifelong partnership

10 October 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hi Christopher,

We tried to reach out to you via the Trustpilot tool to collect your information and assist you, but unfortunately, you didn’t provide any details that would allow us to identify you as our user. Please contact us directly at support@myspecialdates.com, and our team will gladly look into your case.

Also, we’d like to note that your statement about Ukraine is quite disrespectful. The country is indeed at war, but it is not destroyed — people there continue to live, work, and love, showing incredible strength every day. Many of our users are from Ukraine, and we’re proud to support them whenever we can.

We are waiting for your contacts and look forward to assisting you.

Best regards!

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This is a scam

This is a scam. Should be illegal. Please, they should shut it down.
They even invade the trust pilot site or it would have zero rating.

17 September 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Chris,

We tried to reach out to you via the Trustpilot tool to collect your information so we could investigate and assist, but unfortunately, you did not provide us with any details that would allow us to identify you as our user.

If you would like us to review your case, please contact us directly at support@myspecialdates.com and share your account information. This will allow us to look into the matter properly and provide support.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I have had the same experience on all…

I have had the same experience on all of the sites. Now, I’m the dumbest person in this world or the ladies on these sites are just pictures. Models dear I say . As I have now been on most of them and I have spent an embarrassing amount of money trying to find love. They never show up at meeting agreement and it all comes back as you got it wrong.

19 August 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Phill,

We understand your concerns. We did try to reach out to you through the Trustpilot tool to collect your details so we could investigate your case, but unfortunately, we didn’t receive any response. Without this information, we cannot identify you as our user. Please contact us directly at support@myspecialdates.com with your profile details, and we’ll be glad to check this situation carefully and assist you further.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Over $500 each now trying to get each others number Whats the point of a dating sites if you can't actually contact each other A FARCE

Two ladies denied my contact number after long conversations You just want to make money so l won't buy any more credit. Spent over 250 dollars to gradually get each others number to no avail.If you like someone enough should be automatic or blocked without cost.lf you have any decency we should be refunded.The one star is for the clients My id Kurt Brettig K B ID2098834690 and Hanna38 ID2129671900

18 August 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Kurt,

We could not find a profile connected to the email address you provided. To investigate this situation properly, please send us accurate information about your profile as well as the profile(s) of the users you communicated with. Once we receive these details, we will be able to review your case in full.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Be very careful

Be very careful! their latest scam is to trick you into a perpetually recurring debit at instaneouslly repeating intervals. You could lose THOUSANDS in a minute. The only stop point is your credit card limit.

16 August 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello there,

We attempted to contact you via the Trustpilot tool to gather your information and assist with your concerns, but unfortunately, you did not provide it. Without these details, we cannot identify you as our user or investigate your case.

If you would like us to review this situation in detail, please reach out to us directly at support@myspecialdates.com with your profile information. Our team will be glad to assist you.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I asked several times to delete my… biggest scam site

I asked several times to delete my Profile via Chat. No answer or only excuses why they didn’t yet. I also contacted the support via email and until today no answer or action concerning the deletion of my account. Be careful: this site is a fake. They want only your money. I made some researches about some profile: and it was really easy to find the pictures of the woman on other pages. I’m sure, a lot of the profiles on the page are cracked and they use stolen photos.
And you will see what they will answer to this post….. they will say, that she tried to contact me, but my mail is not working!!!!

As I mentioned above, nothing has happened so far. They couldn't contact me, which sounds familiar from other chats, right? On August 21, I was asked to send my data by email so that they could delete my profile. I did that. Weeks have passed since then without anything happening. My account is still active and has not been deleted. For me, this site is a complete failure. Unprofessional, incompetent, disastrous. I don't understand why they have a button on the site to delete your profile if it doesn't work. Simply incompetent. Warning: don't waste a minute or a cent on this site. I wonder if a class action lawsuit should be filed against this company?
I'm curious to see what the next response to this letter will be. In any case, I will get back to you and let you know if and when my profile has been deleted. Has anyone else had the same problem with deleting their profile?

16 August 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Alfonso,

We did try to reach out to you via the Trustpilot tool to collect your details so that we could help, but unfortunately, you did not provide them. Without this information, we are unable to identify you as our user or review your request.

If you would like us to look into your case, please contact us directly at support@myspecialdates.com and provide the details of your profile. Our team will be glad to assist you further.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Definitely a scam

Definitely a scam. I have spent over £5000 on a woman on this site with promises of her coming over to be with me. When pushed she didn't even have a passport so there was not much chance of that happening.
Every single thing you do on the site costs money. Reading letters/chats/pictures. Sending letters/chats/pictures.
I tried to get my profile removed and they have not done even that. I un-subscribed from the emails but still keep getting them.
I tried to email the support address but that is refusing to accept emails and it bounces back.
This site takes advantage of those who have been alone for a long time are looking for some company and a partner. DO NOT SPEND ANY MONEY ON THIS SITE.

10 April 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Rob,

We have received your data and investigated your case. The last contact from you was back in April, when you wrote to us stating that you had previously requested to delete your account but would like to have it restored, which we did at that time.

We have not found any complaints from you about any profiles. If you wish to provide more details, please share them with our support team. If your emails are being returned, we recommend contacting us through the Live Chat option on our website or using the "Delete my profile" button at the bottom of your profile page.

We are here to assist you and address any concerns you may have.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Your better off planning a trip…

Your better off planning a trip overseas I'm sure it would be more pleasurable and better experience for you and the ladies

22 July 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello John,

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. We understand that everyone has different preferences when it comes to finding meaningful connections, and for some, traveling can be a great way to meet people in person.

That said, our platform is designed to help users build real connections online — many of which do lead to in-person meetings. If you ever need assistance navigating the site or have questions about how to get the most from your experience, feel free to reach out to us at support@myspecialdates.com.

Wishing you all the best!

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Dangerous webside!

If you want to spend and wasting your money
and your time avoid this website.! Website dangerous

22 July 2024
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Mustapha,

Thank you for sharing your feedback. We attempted to reach out to you via Trustpilot’s tool to collect your information and offer support, but unfortunately, we didn’t receive a response. Without those details, we’re unable to identify you as a user in our system.

We encourage you to contact us directly at support@myspecialdates.com so we can better understand your experience and assist you. We're here to help and take all concerns seriously.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This is definitively A SCAM

This is definitively A SCAM, false profile, many FALSE PHOTO, some are sadly so obviously AI produced.

You have to spend money at every action, every sentance of a chat, every private letter, seen attachment.....
The women i chat with, they never agree to go outside the application for a free to pay chat, and i never was able to confirms the existance of the person in reality.

I suppect the chat you think you have are with BOTs and employes with predefine action/sentence to keep you chatting and more importantly, paying.... and at the end, youll never meet anyones....

9 July 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Patrick,

Thank you for sharing your concerns. We understand how disappointing this experience must feel and want you to know that we take feedback like yours seriously.

We’ve already received your details, and we encourage you to reach out to our support team at support@myspecialdates.com so we can review your case more closely and provide any clarification or assistance you may need.

Our goal is to ensure a transparent and respectful environment for all users, and we’re here to help address any doubts or issues you’ve encountered.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I have spent over 18,000 dollars trying…

I have spent over 18,000 dollars trying to find a soul mate on this site and the one I picked has cost me an additional 5,000 dollars is there no meeting her? Or anyone on this site for that matter? I think this site is a huge scam!!!!!!

1 January 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Darren,

Thank you for sharing your concerns. We understand how frustrating and disheartening this experience must feel.

Please note that we attempted to reach out to you through Trustpilot’s tool to collect your details and offer assistance, but unfortunately, we didn’t receive a response. Without that information, we’re unable to identify you as a registered user in our system.

We genuinely want to help and encourage you to contact our support team directly at support@myspecialdates.com. We’ll be happy to review your case, provide clarity, and do everything we can to assist you.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

It’s a fraud scamming site

I have spent just over $3k talking to one particular woman, what I find interesting is all the niceties that she gave me and all the promises, but there were certain questions I’d ask her, and the avoidance was amazing, questions like, her phone number, her surname, but all I kept getting was excuses or she avoided answering me, change subjects etc. I pressed continually and this afternoon, she blocked me. This was my second experience with this site, and same rubbish different day.
Do not get fooled by my special dates, it’s BS

30 May 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Harry,

Thank you for your feedback. We understand how disappointing and frustrating this experience must have been for you.

We tried to reach out to you via Trustpilot’s tool to collect your information and investigate the situation further, but unfortunately, we didn’t receive a response. Without this, we’re unable to identify you as a user in our system.

We encourage you to contact our support team directly at support@myspecialdates.com so we can look into your case in detail and offer assistance. We take these concerns seriously and are here to help.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Big Money Scam

If I could write ZERO I would .
WARNING THIS SITE IS A SCAM

You will never be allowed to meet the person you like . This site is one big money scam, you’re not talking directly with the real living person it is a picture only and computers.
All these sites must be removed by new laws desperately needed to STOP these criminals scamming men in Australia.
WARNING DO NOT USES THIS SITE
Information passed on to Australian Federal Police for Investigation

1 May 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Simon,

Thank you for sharing your concerns. We attempted to reach out to you via Trustpilot’s tool to gather your information and assist you, but unfortunately, we did not receive a response. Without that, we’re unable to identify you as a registered user in our system.

We take all feedback and allegations seriously and encourage you to contact us directly at support@myspecialdates.com so we can look into your case and provide support. We’re here to help and address any issues you may have experienced.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

It’s a scam company

It’s a scam company. Stay away from this company. They steal your money !
They steal your money and they don’t care. Stay away from this company. It is a scam!

21 May 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Nick,

We are aware of your case, and our support team has already explained how the credits were spent. Please note that all prices and services are transparently listed on our website.
If you have any other concerns or need further assistance, please don’t hesitate to contact our support team at support@myspecialdates.com — we’re here to help.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

FYI TO AMERICA ABOUT UKRAINIAN SITES MY SPECIAL DATES ETC!

Hello,
Men I'm going to warn you very clearly stay away from myspecialdates.com, valentime.com, Easternhoneys.com, La-date.com & loverwhirl.com ETC. I have been conducting an investigation about these sites for 3 years and what I have found is each service provides each user a free account. It works like this, the user signs up they are given a name to use on the site, the site guarantees to protect there data and gives them a list of rules to follow! This is why they send unlimited messages video and letters with photos. They are given bonuses to earn money from gifts and other services. These ladies are not models. They are real users making money from your finances. I CAUTION YOU, IF YOU SIGN UP FOR ANY OF THESE SERVICES, DO IT AT YOUR OWN RISK. YOU ARE PAYING EACH GIRL EACH AMOUNT OF MONEY YOU LOAD AS WELL AS THE SERVICE. If you are not a very attractive man you have no chance of getting anywhere. These women are very cunning and deceitful. I have two women in Ukraine on the service now that have give me the inside information. I pay them for there help! I'm tired of America's men getting ripped off by these Ukrainians. I am staying vigilant for every American on these scam sites. Be very cautious giving information to this service they will sell it to third parties and you may have identity fraud! TO THE SERVICE ADMINISTRATOR THE GOAL IS TO REMOVE YOU FROM THE WEB!

1 May 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Mike,

We take all concerns seriously and have tried to follow up via Trustpilot’s tool to get your details, but unfortunately, you were not provided to us. To help resolve any issues or clarify things, please contact our support team directly at support@myspecialdates.com. We’re here to assist and address any questions you may have.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

It could improve by being honest and…

It could improve by being honest and reasonably priced. I remain suspicious that women get kickbacks from running the meter. You can find that thousands of dollars in photos and fees has disappeared. Avoid. There are honest sites to connect with equally lovely ladies.

1 January 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello David,

We’ve tried to obtain your details through Trustpilot’s tool to better understand your concerns, but unfortunately, that information wasn’t provided. We encourage you to reach out directly to our support team at support@myspecialdates.com so we can assist you personally and address your concerns.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Over the past week I have checked in my…

Over the past week I have checked in my email. When you leave a review they say they will be in contact because they would like to know any concerns you Have But no one ever contacts you through email so this is Scam From the website all the way down to the girls. This really needs to be shut down And lawsuit filed against them

8 October 2024
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hello Sy,

Thanks for sharing your feedback. We’re sorry to hear about your experience.

Please note that we’ve requested your details through the Trustpilot tool in order to follow up and assist you directly, but unfortunately, we haven’t received a response from you. Without that information, we’re unable to look into your specific case.

We encourage you to reach out to us at support@myspecialdates.com so we can properly address your concerns and help you resolve any issues. We take all reports seriously and are here to support our users.

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This is a typical dating con

This is a typical dating con, where woman are paid to keep you talking and spending credits

24 April 2025
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Reply from Myspecialdates

Hi Peter,

We’re sorry to hear that you feel this way. At MySpecialDates, we strive to create an authentic and enjoyable experience for our users, with a focus on meaningful connections. We understand how important it is to feel that your interactions are genuine, and we work hard to ensure our platform reflects that.

If you’ve experienced any concerns or issues, please reach out to us at support@myspecialdates.com so we can look into the situation and help resolve it. Your feedback is valuable, and we’re here to assist you with any questions or problems you may have.

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