Spent nearly a year in couples therapy…
spent nearly a year in couples therapy and it just made it worse. then I got on a call with Nathan. what finally clicked was him telling me the nice guy thing was the problem, so I joined the Marriage Gravity programme and actually committed.
didn't do any big talks. just did what he laid out and changed how I showed up. she noticed within weeks. wish I'd found this before we wasted all that money on counselling.
