i met so many women on other sites and one that i thought was the one but in the end i was scammed and then i tried la date and fell in love with an angel we talked about marriage but its difficult be... See more
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These girls are so incredibly attractive. And so many photos. Excellent app. I wasn’t expecting such an active and visual experience. Profiles look real and chats don’t stall right away. I notice that... See more
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Good opportunity to make a connection. I didn’t come here expecting instant results, but I liked that conversations actually had room to grow. It doesn’t feel artificial. One thing that confused me at... See more
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I just like the atmosphere the way you feel comfortable talking to someone you never met before. Yes it has alot to do with the people talking but the site invites that crowd of people in and that is... See more
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About La-date
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La-date is an online dating platform designed for those who believe that connection starts with an open heart and a curious mind. Whether you’re just starting out or rediscovering your romantic side, La-date offers a warm, welcoming space for thoughtful, emotionally grounded communication.
Each message on the platform is an invitation to connect with someone who values sincerity, openness, and gentle conversation. You’ll find people who appreciate emotional depth and enjoy taking the time to get to know someone through meaningful dialogue.
The experience is designed to feel natural and free from pressure. You can share your perspective, reflect on the moment, or simply enjoy the chance to be heard and seen. And along the way, you might just experience the quiet surprise of discovering something special when you least expect it.
La-date encourages emotionally safe, intentional interaction—perfect for those who want their next chapter to be rooted in presence, kindness, and possibility.
Feel the surprise of connection—join La-date today and explore what thoughtful communication can bring into your life.
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- support@la-date.help
- la-date.com
3.7
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1K reviews
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Actually better than I expected
14 April 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Armando,
Always nice to hear when something exceeds expectations—thanks for giving it a shot and sticking around!
Warmly,
Ava from La-date
Not one to buy into the whole ‘find your forever’ gimmick
Not one to buy into the whole ‘find your forever’ gimmick, I am. But this site doesn’t promise love with a single click. That alone earns a +1 from me.
8 April 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi there,
Really appreciate your take—sometimes the most meaningful platforms are the ones that don’t overpromise and just let engaging conversations unfold. Glad that stood out to you!
Warmly,
Ava from La-date
100% bot generated contacts
Fake accounts contact me daily. You get a tiny amount of free coins that you will burn through on all the fakes. The pop up ads for buying coins will drive you to deleted it. This is a scam app with very few live people.
28 April 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Larry,
Thank you for taking the time to share your concerns. We’re sorry to hear that your experience hasn’t met your expectations. Profile verification is important to us, and we have strict moderation processes in place to detect and remove suspicious activity. If you’ve come across any profiles that seem fake or inappropriate, we strongly encourage you to report them so our team can review and take action.
We’ve also noted your feedback about pop-ups and overall experience. If you’d like us to take a closer look at your case or need help navigating the platform, please don’t hesitate to reach out at support@la-date.com.
Warmly,
Ava from La-date
Notifications arrive on time - nothing gets lost
Notifications arrive on time - nothing gets lost.
2 April 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi there,
Great to hear everything’s running smoothly for you — thanks for sharing your experience!
Warmly,
Ava from La-date
I’ve been to many cities and seen just as many dating sites
I’ve been to many cities and seen just as many dating sites - like gas stations along a highway. Most were either fake profiles or “talk” that ends with you paying and getting silence. This place? Surprisingly, people are alive here. They actually reply.
1 April 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi there,
Thanks for sharing your experience — really glad to hear the conversations here have felt real and active. That’s exactly what we hope to create for everyone!
Warmly,
Ava from La-date
After so many failed attempts
After so many failed attempts, this site at least brings back hope that real connections are still possible.
14 April 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi there,
Really glad to hear that — happy the platform could offer a bit of that hope back.
Kindly,
Ava from La-date
I was honestly surprised how quickly…
I was honestly surprised how quickly people respond here - sometimes within seconds! The message flow is super active, and it shows the platform is alive 24/7.
Overall, if you're looking for a platform where people are eager to chat, this one doesn’t leave you hanging.
30 March 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Derek,
Really appreciate you sharing that — it’s great to hear you’re enjoying the fast pace and active vibe. Sounds like you’re in the right place for real-time chats!
Kindly,
Ava from La-date
SCAM - avoid!
I don’t believe this site is legit & have reported it as a scam. My underage son was able to visit it, create an account & had money taken out of his account.
Dispite a number of emails I have received no acknowledgment from them & more money was taken today although my son has not been on the website & the bank confirmed he hadn’t signed up to a subscription. The bank did say they tried to take nearly £400 out of his account but due to insufficient funds it was declined! Stay well clear from this website - they are out to take your money!!
14 April 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Jo,
We’re sorry to hear about this situation — we take matters like this very seriously. Our platform is intended strictly for users aged 18 and over, and we have measures in place to prevent underage access. If an account was created in violation of these terms, it should be reported immediately for investigation and removal.
We weren’t able to locate any matching case based on the information in this review. If you haven’t done so already, please contact our support team at support@la-date.com with full details, including any associated email addresses or transaction references, so the matter can be reviewed promptly.
Kindly,
Ava from La-date
They make it extremely difficult to…
They make it extremely difficult to reload on credits, have to try using several credit, debit cards before you get one they accept and then they recommend using a " LOADABLE " MONEY CARD, and then decline the card, saying " ..... You need to get in touch with your bank, they are the one declining your card ..... ", BUT IT IS A RELOADABLE MONEY CARD,ONE YOU PUT MONEY IN THE CARD TO BE ABLE TO USE IT !!! ," NO BANK IS INVOLVED !! THEN, this company starts charging credits to send a " GIFT " to the lady you communicate with ?!? IF I desire giving a gift, I will do it on my own and in person !! smh
15 April 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Ernest,
Thanks for taking the time to share your experience. We understand that payment-related difficulties can be frustrating, and we’re sorry to hear that things didn’t go smoothly for you. Our goal is always to make the user experience as convenient as possible, and feedback like yours helps highlight areas where we can improve.
Regarding the interactive features — they are completely optional and designed to offer more ways for users to express themselves during communication. Everyone is free to choose how they’d like to engage on the platform.
Please know that we’ve tried reaching out to you through Trustpilot’s tools so we could understand your situation better and offer more direct help, but unfortunately, we haven’t received a reply. We looked into our system using the username shown here but weren’t able to locate a matching account. If you’re open to it, we’d be happy to assist further — just contact the support team at support@la-date.com.
Best,
Ava from La-date
I was bored and just clicked on an ad
I was bored and just clicked on an ad. Thought I’d look at a couple photos and leave - ended up staying for an hour. Turns out there are actually girls here who can joke around and don’t immediately hit you with “where do you work and how much do you make?” Didn’t fall in love, but I bookmarked the site.
21 January 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Fabian,
Appreciate you sharing that — sounds like the site caught your attention in the best kind of way. Glad you stuck around and had a good time.
Kindly,
Ava from La-date
It's a scam!!
It's a scam!!! The app blacks out exchanged phone numbers to prevent conversations being removed from the apps constant ridiculous pursuit of token purchases. That requires spending at least HUNDREDS of dollars before phone numbers can be exchanged between consenting adults to communicate without paying for each text and the outrageous token prices for sending and receiving pics
5 April 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Donald,
Thanks for sharing your feedback. We understand your frustration and want to clarify that users are free to exchange information if both parties agree. However, to maintain user security, certain measures are in place to prevent unsolicited sharing of personal details and ensure a safe experience for everyone. We understand that this can feel restrictive at times, and we take your feedback seriously in evaluating how we can improve this process.
Also, we know that costs can be a concern, and while credits are needed for certain features, users have full control over how they choose to use them. If you’d like to discuss this further or share more details, feel free to contact us at support@la-date.com — we’re here to help.
Best,
Ava from La-date
Reply from La-date
Hi Shannon,
Thanks for the message — it sounds like you're feeling something strong, and we hope your connection on the platform brings you happiness. At the same time, we’re here scratching our heads a bit over the rating. Was there anything we could improve? Let us know at support@la-date.com; we’re all about getting things just right for you!
Warm regards,
Ava from La-date
No one seems to be real or authentic
No one seems to be real or authentic. The cost to try to communicate is ridiculous!! You shouldn’t have to keep buying coins to try to chat!! There’s no way to actually meet someone!!
26 March 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Gail,
We’re sorry to hear about your experience. All profiles are reviewed in line with our Terms of Use, and we take reports of suspicious behavior seriously. If you’ve had any concerns about authenticity, please don’t hesitate to report the profiles or contact us directly at support@la-date.com — our team will be glad to look into it.
Regarding communication, certain features do require credits, which help support the platform’s moderation and safety measures. You’re always in control of which services you choose to use, and we appreciate your feedback on how the system feels from a user’s side.
Best,
Ava from La-date
I tried it and after one hour or so
I tried it and after one hour or so, I realized it’s a complete scam! Some of the communications are generated by bots and you can certainly tell they don’t come from genuine people ! I was totally annoyed ! Never mind.
19 March 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Susan,
We’re sorry to hear about your experience and appreciate you taking the time to share it. Trust and authenticity are important to us, and all user profiles are verified according to our Terms of Use. If you’ve noticed any suspicious behavior, we encourage you to report it so our team can look into it. You can also contact us directly at support@la-date.com—we’d be happy to investigate further.
Best,
Ava from La-date
Lots of beautiful woman to talk to
Lots of beautiful woman to talk to, but it will eat away alot of your credit, cost around nearly 40 bucks Australian dollars in roughly like less then 5 minutes if you message over or under 10 messages roughly, the more message you send the more credit you used, it will cost around nearly over 1k aweek in Australia dollars if you used it more often,
Yes ideal women of your dreams for man is in their but way to expensive to keep up to it, because you have to top up credit every so often
17 March 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Lase,
We appreciate you sharing your experience and understand that managing credits is an important part of using the platform. The credit-based system is designed to provide flexibility, allowing users to engage at their own pace. We always recommend checking the platform's payment details to better understand how credits are used.
If you have any questions or would like assistance in managing your experience, please don’t hesitate to contact our support team at support@la-date.com. They’ll be happy to provide guidance and any available options.
Best,
Ava from La-date
False algorithm generated profiles
False algorithm generated profiles. Scam site.
11 March 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Gregory,
We’re sorry to hear that your experience didn’t meet your expectations. Our platform is designed to facilitate genuine interactions, and we take concerns about profile authenticity seriously. If you’ve encountered any suspicious activity, we encourage you to report it to our support team at support@la-date.com so we can review the matter further. Your feedback is valuable, and we appreciate the opportunity to improve.
Best,
Ava from La-date
Feb 28
Feb 28, 2025, 23:15 GMT+2
Hello
The experience with the site was quite uncomfortable, very bad, the profiles are fake, there are bots replying and giving likes all the time.
The application really only serves to fill dopamine and create a virtuality beyond lies, all or 80% of “women” if you can say live in a world of sexual fantasy that is boring, I think your team of developers should improve their focus and not be so obvious that the interactions for today's world should be as simple and real, not just sexuality in the world of dating, I've been on other dating platforms and this is the champion of the most bad and poor content.
I hope they take into account the next developments and pity my money invested here.
Regards
Andrés
Later the support team wrote this:
"Dear Jo,
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. We truly value your time and perspective.
I understand that building meaningful connections can take time, and I want to ensure you have the best possible experience with us.
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We'd also love to hear your feedback—what's working, and what we can improve to make the platform even more valuable for you. Your insights mean a lot to us!
So, what do you think? Are you ready to give it another try with 20% discount? At this point, you have two options to choose from:
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Are you kidding me, explaining the problems about this site and how expensive for credit they only offer a discount, hahahah it's a joke, don't throw your money away and better your time there.
28 February 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Andrés,
We’re sorry to hear that your experience didn’t meet your expectations. We understand how important it is to have authentic and meaningful interactions, and we appreciate your honest feedback. Our team is continuously working to improve the platform, and insights like yours help us identify areas for enhancement.
If you’d like to share more details about your concerns, our support team is available at support@la-date.com and happy to assist. We value your input and appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts.
Kindly,
Ava from La-date
Entertaining but expensive in foreign currency.
Entertaining, but expensive in foreign currency, it leaves you wanting to continue. I propose offering free coins for 7 days to new users and considering extra bonuses for those who find a partner.
25 February 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Jhon,
We appreciate your feedback and want to make sure we fully understand your concerns. It looks like your review is written in a language other than English, which makes it difficult for us to accurately process your message.
To assist you as best as possible, we kindly ask that you provide an English translation or a brief summary of your key points. This will help us review your concerns properly and respond accordingly. If you need further assistance, feel free to reach out to our support team at support@la-date.com.
Kind regards,
Ava from La-date
As on any dating site
As on any dating site, there are both real people and those who just want to waste your time. The key is to choose the right people to chat with. In general, I like it: I've already made a few good acquaintances. The resource is quite adequate. Let's see how it works out.
17 February 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Adam,
That’s a great approach—connecting with the right people makes all the difference! Glad to hear you’ve already made some good acquaintances. Hope it keeps going well for you!
Best,
Ava from La-date
Interesting people
Interesting people, but some of the bots are annoying.
16 February 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from La-date
Hi Max,
If you ever come across any profiles that seem off, feel free to report them—we’re always working to improve the experience. Hope you keep enjoying your time here!
Best,
Ava from La-date
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