i met so many women on other sites and one that i thought was the one but in the end i was scammed and then i tried la date and fell in love with an angel we talked about marriage but its difficult be... See more
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La-date is an online dating platform designed for those who believe that connection starts with an open heart and a curious mind. Whether you’re just starting out or rediscovering your romantic side, La-date offers a warm, welcoming space for thoughtful, emotionally grounded communication.
Each message on the platform is an invitation to connect with someone who values sincerity, openness, and gentle conversation. You’ll find people who appreciate emotional depth and enjoy taking the time to get to know someone through meaningful dialogue.
The experience is designed to feel natural and free from pressure. You can share your perspective, reflect on the moment, or simply enjoy the chance to be heard and seen. And along the way, you might just experience the quiet surprise of discovering something special when you least expect it.
La-date encourages emotionally safe, intentional interaction—perfect for those who want their next chapter to be rooted in presence, kindness, and possibility.
Feel the surprise of connection—join La-date today and explore what thoughtful communication can bring into your life.
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I got someone I chatted with and she has been very active. this site is for real

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no notifications begging you to upgrade. just log in and chat.

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The costs are to high for an individual to establish a relationship

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don't write reviews usually. but I'm happy after tonight's chat so. good site.

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If I could get zero Stars I would. I don't know that I believe any of these reviews. True this site is full of beautiful women. But most of them are there just to get you hooked in and continue to buy credits to speak to them. Mini tried to lure me with risque photos and internal site emails describing explicit sex acts . Credits are very expensive and only lasts a short period of time. And if you do find somebody special the site requires you to purchase at least 5,000 credits in other words spend anywhere from $2,000 and above before you can exchange information with another user. Claiming that it is to protect both parties. It also appears that only the men are charged. All the women I saw had photographs that appear to be professionally taken. It was unfortunate that I actually met somebody and we both wanted to communicate outside the site but were restricted in every way from doing so. Unless I purchased 5,000 credits. Credits start at something like 20 credits for $20. So you do the math. Of course there are deals for quantity purchases but it still gets very expensive. Compared to other sites, this site is a scam.
I recently received a response from La-date. And the only thing that was addressed was the explicit content of one of the users. That was not my biggest complaint. I'm an adult and explicit content I can deal with. The issue is the money scam! A user will have to pay anywhere from $1,500 to $2,000 before users can speak to one another freely without being monitored by the site. If two people decide they want to speak with each other that should be up to them not the site. It is clearly a money-making scheme to get $2,000 from the the mail of the two. To my knowledge women are not charged. This is an outrageous sum of money compared to other sites. If two people want to exchange personal information it should be up to them. We are all adults. I still believe this site to be nothing more than a money making scam targeting men as the victims.

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she asked me what I was reading. turned out she'd read the same book. we talked about it all evening.

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No way to see your own profile the way others see it. I'm optimising something I can't actually look at. Flying blind.

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i'm not someone who opens up easily but something about typing it out makes it easier. had some really honest conversations here that surprised me

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Jessi used way more time than necessary to make sure my questions and issue I understood completely.I been on this platform five years and no one else comes even close to the way Jessi helped me.

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The amount of ladies is unbelievable and they make it easy to connect

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She was very nice and helpful and did all that she could to help me

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no weird copy paste openers. she wrote something real.

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I put off joining for months because I assumed it'd be like every other site. eventually gave in. it isn't like the others.

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I appreciate what the manager did for me trying to resolve this issue thank you

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I've been on Ladate for a long time. They bait you in for sure and want you to continue to pay. Especially for men who want to meet a lady on there site. I deleted my profile because I was informed that you have to spend 5000 credits before you can meet or exchange information to meet your dream lady. They don't tell you that at all when you sign up. It's costs the men alot each time you want credits. And they really don't want anyone to meet up or exchange information unless the paying men spend 5000 credits. Boycott Ladate now. Stop there cash cow.Beautiful ladies but to meet them you have to spend 5000 credits. Wow I was chatting with a very interested lady. And she even said that it is very difficult to give out any information to meet up. They will give you a few free credits to keep you and hope you spend when you are deciding to leave the site for good. The thing is. You haven't purchased 5000 credits to be able to exchange information to the lady you are interested in and she can't leave you information as well. There is no feature when you sign up saying you have to pay a certain amount to give out personal contact information.Also there is no credit purchase saying it either. Stop the lies please.You just want men to spend tons of money on your site. The prices are ridiculous.

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didn't know if I still had it. apparently I do.

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quick polite response and further info to explain my question,

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I think the price of the credit is too high and you have to communicate with someone for a long time to even be able to get their information. I don’t like that part of you all website. I think you can learn if you are really into a person faster than what you claim that you will have to stay on the site for and to me I think you are all just trying to make money to keep people here that’s my honest opinion on that. I think you should un restrict when you can send personal information. I think you should be able to send the information anytime you want to Stop having to pay all the time just to talk to someone you really like and for that I don’t like your website. I wish it could b More cost-efficient for everyone because people are on strict budget just like me. I don’t know if anybody will read this, but I’m just telling you from my point of view how I see things on your website thank you.

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