FetLife Reviews 206

they really suck I reported a guy that was being a sock puppet and they did nothing

Was constantly harassed on my first profile and when I tried to complain about it they never answered me but when I posted his profile and his username because he kept saying I was beneath him, I got in trouble.

I didn’t reveal anything personal, not his name, nothing else but his username since he thinks he could tell me that I’m beneath him after I lost of account for almost a month and I got in trouble while they didn’t do anything about him. Or reply. Or anything.

You will harassed. They do nothing and ruin your want to explore any kinks again. Because that’s how I’m feeling.

Edit: Now, after almost a year, they have reached out to me through here to threaten to take my review down or to be considered as a fake. Says a lot about them.

After you upload photos and do a profile, they lock you out of your account unless you upload Govt. photo ID. F Off and Goodbye. Website is full of OnlyFans Women who just want you to sign up to that site. It's crap for meeting anyone.

every time I make a new account it gets locked within 24hrs with no explanation. Never get an answer from their support either. Waste of time

No active members in my area. The members are not really willing to meet and do bdsm with this site. Those who knows each others are not warms for those that are not in theirs groups. They don't have urgency of life for experiment sexual meeting. Plus, the events creators at my area don't wan't to introduce me as a new members in a silent treatment. Full of rejection and people without serious respect.

needed help recovering my old account. Support was reactive, quick and efficient. Nowadays, it's rare to get that level of support. thanks again

amazing customer service!

my account was taken over because I did something stupid :( however, when I reached out to support not only did they respond immediately by locking the account and replying within minutes; they also worked with me to get me back in quickly and properly secure my account. further, they're taking my feedback and experience to make the platform even better :)

I couldn't have asked for anything more this is the best customer service I've received from an online community in years! this experience really gives me confidence in the people running the site!

Tried it. Toxicity is like currency there. Hard to feel safe, Creeps everywhere, and jumping in your dm constantly and saying god awful things. Owner is active member and posts like they are 14.
Wish i had read this first. Might have saved me the headache.
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Answered a casting call on Fetlife. The photographer (Rue99) performed an unwanted sex act. He exposed multiple models to chronic, incurable STI's including Hep B and Herpes. Fetlife refuses to take down his profile or limit his ability to post, but anyone who tries to warn about him gets suspended under the "spotting" and "doxing" policies. Fetlife does not care about user safety.

communicate with like minded individuals great site

Break all sorts off privacy laws, you sign in are all about safety, boom...give us your government id...you know...the stuff scammers do...

Waste of time. You will never in a million years meet anyone on the site. Just hookers and bots.

They block no warningThey block no warning jerks

.Mods with god complexes
.Rudest people I've ever met
.Toxic to the extreme
.Rigged system/favouritism (if your friends with a mod or high status you can basically get away breaking every rule)
.Literally lie and make stuff up about you


Only use it to lurk for public event Literally use any other website if your looking for anything else this place is a cesspit

Garbage site for one main reason: Communication.

And I'm not even talking about the guys who think they can change your mind about a hard limit.

The people who run this site have listed rules that I'm not even sure they have ever read, and have a crappy designed site that will lock you out if you "refresh too much." Speaking of getting locked out, you can also have this happen for no perceivable reason at all! And you're crazy if you think they're going to tell you.

Contact Us page may as well not exist. They WILL NOT answer your emails. I was verified, and got locked out for nothing. Sent emails to support team, and radio silence.

How they can improve?
Fix the site so refreshing isn't such an issue, and COMMUNICATE WITH PEOPLE. Answer your emails, or hire someone who will.

Was horrible if you are a women you will have fun but if you are a guy you are nothing. Approach conversations with respect you get ignored try talking about interests you get blocked. Honestly it's a lose lose situation full of people promoting their only fans. If you want to feel less then dirt open an account other wise stay away it's healthier for your mental health and self respect.

Oh my God so like I contacted customer service today because I wanted to send some photos to somebody but my email has been hacked and I knew this from before but I thought maybe this one had the other email. And to find out it didn't so plus I've had my phone number changed I don't know you girls understand you lose your phone you have to change your phone number anyway so I'm on customer service and they're helping me out and they're like okay cool well you can't do this you can't do that take a photo of yourself let's see your ID okay I can do that I take a picture of the dress also that's inside of my closet that's in the photos and lo and behold they help me out I've been able to change my email and get away from that toxic hacked email account and Yahoo and I'm able to update my phone number so now I'm back in and I can send my cute little sexy outfits

The problem with this site its full of Gate Keepers who appear to have been there since the site creation. If its meant to be about Kinkiness or Bdsm well it's fair to say it's mostly filled with porn. Not only that they want you to pay for it pretty sure you can watch porn on say Porn hub for free so why would you pay.
So if your looking to explore your Kinky side or Bdsm my advice is look elsewhere and if its porn visit Porn Hub or any other porn site.

This website was destroyed by gender politics.

Replied to a post by a only fans "porn star" in which she said that the porn industry was changing cultural norms on things like "body size".

I merely pointed out that if a person likes 5' tall asian girls, they wont change their preference to "plus size" women if they can only find "plus size" porn online.

Also noted that the male performers have not gotten "plus size" or "dad bod" like the women.

SOME how that is considered a "slur". NO explanation other then that, and its a 3 day timeout.

Also need to point out, that the only people leaving good reviews here about Fetlife are site administrators or their sock puppet accounts.

I was locked from my profile without any explanation. NOT even a Word. Ive sent them 4 emails asking for the explanation 4 emails !! And no one not a single person working there was able to write something back. Unbelivable!!!! The People working there must be terrible .