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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

None of the people you see are real, just website employees and bots. They probe you with people of various nationalities, body styles and various distances from you. They are just after the $$$. A... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Every time I ask specific questions about someone here they never answer they always beat around the bush with some weird generic question or comment it’s a total rip off I’m embarrassed I ever spent... See more

Rated 2 out of 5 stars

Enjoyed it for a few minutes. It’s obvious the people you’re chatting with are either AI bots or people working in some office in Cyprus. Every member is online 100% of the time? Every woman just goes... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

What another complete con . One woman’s profile claimed to be from Burton on Trent 10 messages later she admitted she was in America. This site is taking money by deception which is actually a crimina... See more

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  1. Dating Service
  2. Adult Dating Service

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On dateYou ❤ you’ll find the nicest singles in your area. ✅ Simply download the app for free ✅ or use the web app!


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TrustScore 1 out of 5

108 reviews

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Dateyou is an absolute disgrace. It's 100% scammer infiltrated

These scammers are excellent at getting cash out of your pocket via chatting 24/7. They get a commission for it. I've been more successful on AFFlirt.com
Not to toot my own horn, but I was contacted by quite a few hot chicks and I went on a few dates. It's an upscale dating site, nothing like DateYou crap. I recommend you guys to stay away from DY for your own mental health and for the safety of your wallet. It can only lead to bitter disappointment and loss of money.

24 May 2026
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Do not go on this sight its ran out of…

Do not go on this sight its ran out of some office or apartment building that's the key to knowing its woman hired to talk to you or It can be bots to keep you company on text not saying you cant find real love on this app but that possibility is kinda not a good one it's just people out for your money so choose another dating app to go to.

20 October 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 2 out of 5 stars

Active site, but many bost

The interface is clean and I got lost of messages quickly, but most seemed automated. It's hard to find real people to talk to. Not a total scam, but not very trustworthy either.

22 May 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

More lonely then when I started!

First off it won't let me do a half star or no star to leave a review. I got to tell you. This site is totally bunk. I was on it for a few days since my first dating site and got my hopes up and all that good stuff to realize that all these women are probably robots or employees because you say something and share your feelings and what have you going on and they didn't even reply about what you just said they would say something oh well thanks for telling me that interesting stuff what's your ideal first date or something off topic like that. They never really responded and answer the question and nobody could upload a new photo you know and everybody sidestepped meeting up and hooking up and they would always come back like a robot when they replied that sounds really interesting they would say and they'd ask something like what's your idea of spontaneity you know I mean it's freaking lame. I'm somewhat heartbroken as it was my first dating site and I put over 100 bucks into it $25 for like 10 texts maybe and I even bought some girl gift I only chatted with maybe two girls on there and I got like a hundred hits lots of profile viewing and this thing is totally fake and I couldn't afford to do what I did so now I feel even more alone than ever cuz now I'm broke and don't have a girl. I went to a section in there for refund or grievance and we'll see what happens. My advice to you God help you if you don't read these reviews first

22 March 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This site is a chat bot

The women on this site are strongly suspected to be nothing more than chatbots, and are not real women. I believe this site to be fake and all they do is answer messages with more questions in order to make you send more messages, which cost money every time you send one. Very fake and very disappointing.

16 November 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

DATE YOU is a Money Pit

I had no choice but to award this phony dating site one Star because there was no slot for a Zero Star! As a veteran law enforcement officer and a very experienced investigator, please take my statement seriously. If you truly desire to have a real physical relationship with a woman, don't ever seek that dream on Date You! You will do so much better just buying a plastic Blow Up doll for companionship. Everyone of the phony "women" on this site are Fictional characters! That's a fact. I've investigated this money pit for several months and even though I have been contacted by hundreds of very seductive "Ladies"... not even one was a real woman! I provided over 108 "Women" all of my contact info and not one contacted me... not even one. Everyone insisted on keeping me buying credits to message them even tho I told them that I would not reply in advance. This phony dating and chat site is one of the biggest frauds and money hustles I have ever seen. If you are a gullible moron and love to be scammed out of your money, then by all means,,,pay these vultures your money! It's just a endless Money Pit!!

5 November 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Scam, dont try

There is no way to delete your account. This is a scam. You have to request deleting your account, it claims it will be deleted in several days, months later, still no deletion. Not to mention there is no way to contact any customer service.

19 October 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I was on Date You for some time and…

I was on Date You for some time and spending a lot of money. There were too many red flags I didn't pick up on. The ladies never wanted to leave this app and they always had an excuse as far as going on a date. I hope this review will save men some money and energy.

17 August 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

b honest do not take lonely people…

b honest do not take lonely people money looking for happyness once they have lost a love one they pay the ladys to tell u what u want to hear to keep u on line and take your money it is a sin and a shame.

25 July 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This is the worst scam of all.However…

This is the worst scam of all.However they tell u in the terms and policy (that most people don’t read) that these are not real people and you will never see one. I am embarrassed to say I caught on after spending $$. Hope this saves you $, remember it is 100% fake nobody is real no dates.

24 June 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

SCAM! SCAM! SCAM!

SCAM! SCAM! SCAM! All BOTS there isn’t any real women on this site all they try to do is make you purchase more & more coins to CHIT CHAT with you. Don’t fall for it guys this is truly a SCAM!

14 March 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This is a rip off site

This is a rip off site. You pay 50 cents for each message you send to the "perfect" date for you. You can find out quickly if they are real, just send what appears to be a real phone number. You will receive an "Immediate" reply, which shows that what you send is going to get a automatic reply, which shows the person you think you are chatting with is FAKE. You can just look at the photos and see they are NOT from the US. It appears to be Russians and or Ukrainians. Do not waste any money on this site. I don't care about any of the 5 star ratings, they are all fake, probably from the site.

27 January 2024
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Like other reviewers this company is…

Like other reviewers this company is only here to take your money. The women on here are not from your area or town or even state. Most women that respond to your questions or messages use UK English and not US English for example words like Shagging, straight away, favourite, so it’s all a scam. Don’t spend any money just turn and run away as fast as you can. Go to a bar and find some women.

3 January 2024
Unprompted review

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